FAQs

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When should we RSVP by?

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Thanks to everyone who RSVPed! As we have reached the deadline for our vendor, this page has now been removed for both the Italian and Canadian celebrations. We can’t wait to celebrate with you!

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Is there a dress code?

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Yes! Both events will be exclusively formal. The venue in Calgary will actually refuse entry to anyone in jeans, as it is a historic and formal location. Cowboy hats/boots, denim, runners, or overly-exposed clothing won't be able to make it past our designated bouncers. All colour attire is welcome, as there is no designated theme for the groom/parties' wardrobes. Koda says "Why not take this as a chance to dress like you're going to the Met Gala? When else are you in Italy with a professional photographer?" If you have questions or would like a check on your outfit, please feel free to ask either groom.

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Are kids welcome?

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We love kiddos, though both locations have limitations on quantities in attendance. If you do not have children directly mentioned in your invitation, we hope you are able to secure a sitter or family member.

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Where do we stay?

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Rooms must be booked through Matt or Koda, as all available accommodation within a twenty minute radius has been reserved in preparation for the event. Please let us know in your RSVP any details you may have (i.e. accessibility, special requests for kids, etc.) and we will do our best to accommodate.

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I'm seeing someone new. Can I bring a plus one?

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Unfortunately, we have a very limited number of rooms as well as seats in the dining hall. If your RSVP does not mention a +1, we hope you understand the reasoning behind our limitations.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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In Calgary, there is limited parking underground, though plenty of street parking and other lots are available around the venue. We recommend giving it a drive-by if you are able to... or better yet, take an Uber or cab so you can get home without issue. Drinking and driving is *never* an option. In Italy, there is parking outside the venue, down the street, and further down the street. It's Italy, so you can practically park anywhere without issue. That said, if you will not be driving, please let our venue know upon arrival when you plan to depart after the wedding so they can schedule a cab from Rome or Tivoli. There are no cabs absentmindedly roaming around San Gregorio :)

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Our special day in Calgary will have a spread of delicious hors d'oeuvres, though if you have any special requests, we would love to know ahead of time. We can pass along the information to our venue so that they are aware. In Italy, we will do our best to accommodate any allergies and restrictions. Our chef, Stefano, is exceptionally talented, so we recommend keeping an open mind whenever possible for non-allergy-related aversions!

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Do you have language tips and tricks?

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While it's always a flex to learn another language, Italian can be tricky. Consider learning some basics to get you through the day-to-day, especially since we found everyone was much friendlier after giving it the ol' college try. Ciao (ch-ow) - hi, hello, goodbye Per favore (pear-fav-orray) - please Scusa (scoo-sah) - excuse me, sorry Dov'é (doh-vay) - where is Bisogno di aiuto (bih-zoy-no dee aye-oo-toh) - I need help Copy and paste the below URL into your browser for some other helpful basics! https://rb.gy/w6l1fr

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Tell me about Italy

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For those travelling to Italy for the first time, here are some basics to keep you apprised: - table service is *very* different than in Canada, as servers will typically leave you until you flag them down. Never snap for attention or be rude, but flag them down if you make eye contact to get a menu (il menu), order, or bill (il conto) - Cash or no cash? It's best to have both! Most places accept card (carta credito, if you're fancy) but cash for markets or tips is preferred. - 3 different police groups exist, and they may stop to ask for your ID. Don't be alarmed, as this is to simply prevent crime. If a beefy dude with one eye, no teeth, and bloody knuckles comes your way, it might be a different story. - Uber is the best for all your transport needs! Be sure to download and create an account so you can efficiently schedule a taxi or private car/van. - SIM cards are very cheap abroad, so we recommend purchasing one directly from the airport or corner store upon arrival. If you want to avoid the effort, consider an e-SIM for ease and affordable data (Matt and Koda use the "Airalo" app). While not essential, a data plan can help with on-the-go needs in travel like maps, car bookings/taxis, and translations. - most western Canadians will appreciate a good yee-ing and haw-ing, but you'll stand out like a sore thumb in cowboy boots/hats in Europe... which can make you the target of rudeness - or worse, theft.