FAQs
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How do we RSVP?
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You can RSVP by clicking the RSVP tap here on our website. We can't wait to see you!
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When do I need to RSVP by?
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Since our vendors are awaiting our guest count, the sooner you can RSVP, the better! We will need a final headcount by April 23rd- one month away from our wedding.
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What should I do if I cannot make it?
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You will be definitely be missed! If you cannot attend, please indicate so on your RSVP so that we may plan accordingly. If you need to change your RSVP status but the website will not allow it, feel free to text Lauren or Scott personally.
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Can I bring a plus one or a date?
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We are only able to accommodate guests who are formally invited on your wedding invitation. Your RSVP on the website will be made out to "(Your Name) & Guest" if you are given a plus-one. Please reach out to Lauren or Scotty if you believe there has been a mistake. Thanks for understanding!
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Are children invited?
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As much as we adore your little ones, we can only accommodate children within our families or within the wedding party. If your children are invited, their names will be listed under their RSVP. We hope you understand!
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What is the dress code? What colors should I wear?
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We are kindly asking our guests to abide by a formal dress code- long and midi length or short cocktail dresses are encouraged! For men, we encourage a suit! Feel free to wear whatever color you'd like, as long as it is not white :)
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What color are the bridesmaids wearing?
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The bridesmaids will be wearing light pink!
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What time should I arrive at The Cathedral?
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The ceremony will be a full Catholic mass, lasting about one hour. The mass begins promptly at 2:00pm, so we encourage guests to arrive around 1:30 or earlier to find parking (since it is in Downtown Mobile and also Memorial Day weekend).
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Where should I park for the mass at The Cathedral?
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The Cathedral does have a limited parking lot near Dauphin at Franklin Street, so feel free to park here if you arrive early enough. Otherwise, street parking is an option, which is free on the weekends!
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Can I attend mass if I am not Catholic?
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Of course! And, if desired, you may come up and cross your arms across your chest during communion for a blessing.
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What is proper etiquette at a Catholic mass?
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We do ask that our guests be respectful and do not participate in conversation during the mass.
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Can we take pictures on our phones during the mass?
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We ask that our guests please respect the nature of the Catholic mass and do not take pictures on your phones. We have a professional photography team and videography team that will be present. As for the reception- we encourage all the photo taking!
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What happens after mass?
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Time for the cocktail hour and reception! Feel free to make your way over to Fort Conde Inn where our reception will be located. Parking is located at the venue. We can't wait to celebrate!
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Where can I park at Fort Conde Inn for the reception?
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Parking is available off Royal Street in the parking lot near the cruise terminal. More specific instructions coming soon!
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What kind of food will be served at the reception?
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We will have lots of delicious options, including plenty of meat dishes and some vegetarian options. Feel free to reach out to Lauren and Scotty for the specific menu if you are concerned. We want all of our guests to have a good time!
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Where are you registered?
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We do have a registry tab here on the Zola website! We are also registered with Pottery Barn, Williams Sonoma, Ivy Cottage, Five Gold Monkeys, Anthropologie, Target, and Amazon. We are truly SO appreciative for any registry items we are gifted. Thank you so much for your generosity.