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When should I RSVP by?When should I RSVP by?

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ASAP, but if you insist on stressing us out then the deadline is April 10, 2026. If we don't receive your reply by the end of the day on this date, we cannot make exceptions and you will be terribly missed.

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Oh no! What if I didn't RSVP in time?Oh no! What if I didn't RSVP in time?

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We're sorry you've missed the deadline, your invite will be automatically marked "no". We hope you understand and we can party it up some other time! While we don't recommend crashing the wedding, if you decide to show up anyway, then bring your own meal and a folding chair because you will be sitting by yourself and along the side.

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Look for ABIGAIL'S GARDEN when you arrive!Look for ABIGAIL'S GARDEN when you arrive!

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Abernethy Center has a few different venues and you want to look for Abigail's Garden! The garden has its own parking lot and also has street parking available. There will be a pathway that leads you straight to the venue.

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What's the Dress Code? / How's the weather?What's the Dress Code? / How's the weather?

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Temperatures are typically mid 60s to low 70s in May. Semi-formal to Formal attire is fine. But due to the chilly evenings, a light to warm jacket is recommended to bring still. Both the ceremony and reception will be outdoors. The venue will take the necessary precautions if the weather isn't on our side, but either way we'll be eating under a large tent with heat lamps on standby.

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Will there be kids?Will there be kids?

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Yup, but only the ones specified on invites. Please do not bring your kids if they're not included on your invites. They will be not be looked after and will not have a seat at the table.

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What if I have dietary restrictions?What if I have dietary restrictions?

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Please note that in your RSVP so you don't die or to avoid starving.

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Can I bring a guest?Can I bring a guest?

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Please refrain since we’re keeping our wedding celebration to just the people we know and love. We are also not made of money unless you're cool with your guest just standing outside the venue and having fomo :)

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📵 Unplugged Ceremony🚫📷📵 Unplugged Ceremony🚫📷

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We have photographers who will be wandering around and catching the moments of the ceremony already so please keep your phones and cameras tucked away during this time. Do not let our money go to waste please D:

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Do you have a registry?Do you have a registry?

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We don’t have an official registry and truly appreciate your presence at our wedding more than anything. If you’d like to give a gift, contributions to our honeymoon and house fund would mean the world to us as we start our first couple of adventures as newlyweds.