FAQs

Question

Is there a theme to your wedding?

Answer

The reception has city pop and retro themes and dress code is formal/semi-formal or cocktail attire. There is no restrictions to color for guests, be sure to wear something comfortable for the dance floor :)

Question

Do you have a registry?

Answer

Your presence, love, support, and participation on our special day mean the world, and we couldn't ask for more. Regarding gifts, we've decided not to create a traditional wedding registry. Instead, if you wish to give a gift, we want to be open about our preference for cash gifts. We have listed more details for electronic methods under the registry tab. We understand that this may not be the most conventional approach, but it would allow us to embark on our new journey together and create lasting memories. However, please know that your attendance is more important to us than any present. Your love and support are the greatest gifts we could receive. Once again, thank you for being a part of our lives and for sharing in our joy as we begin this new chapter together. We truly appreciate your understanding and kindness.

Question

Transportation?

Answer

Chicago Transit Authority (CTA) for public transportation -- Great for traversing downtown where parking is more limited. Bus and train (the 'L') routes are available through Google Maps. >Ventra can purchased at stations or through app on phone. Divvy bikes available throughout city. Uber and Lyft for ridesharing.

Question

What is a tea ceremony?

Answer

Edwin and his party must participate in a series of "door games" before being accepted into the bride's family and beginning the tea ceremony. The tea ceremony involves the bride and groom pouring tea to family members. They can give gifts, blessings and offer advice on marriage to the couple. This represents respect and gratitude to our elders as we honor the blending of our families.

Question

What are door games?

Answer

The groom and his party must participate in a series of challenges from the bridal party to receive the bride. The purpose is to test the groom's love and determination. Once Edwin completes these games with his team, the tea ceremony can take place symbolizing the acceptance of the groom by the bride's family.

Question

What is the dress code for the tea ceremony?

Answer

Photographers and videographers will be present, so wear something you’d be comfortable with being photographed in. Traditional wear for this ceremony is called an áo dài, it is not necessary, but you are welcome to wear it. The groom will be wearing traditional Filipino wear: barong. The bride will wear red.

Question

What should I say during the tea ceremony? What kind of gifts should be offered?

Answer

Advice should take no more than 2min and it can be anything from words of encouragement, wisdom, or simple congratulations. Gifts are typically cash given in a red envelope. This is not necessary and we will be providing extra envelopes if you would like to use them to give to us for photos. If you plan to give money, avoid giving amounts with “4” as it is unlucky.

Question

What food options are available at the Tea Ceremony?

Answer

A curated menu our favorites. Vietnamese - Spring rolls, Fried rice, Banh Duc (Steamed coconut rice cake with shrimp) Filipino - Pancit, Palabok, Lechon Random - Char Siu (Chinese BBQ Pork), Arroz con Gandules, Little Caesars Pizza Beverages - Tea, Coffee, Heineken, TBD batched Cocktails

Question

What order are family members called during the tea ceremony?

Answer

Traditionally the order is determined by age/ranking, so we will call names from eldest to youngest. We would love to hear good wishes and advices from all members but for the interest of time we will include immediate family only.