FAQs

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Can I bring a date or other members of my family with me?

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We’re keeping our celebration intimate, so plus ones are limited. If your invitation includes a guest, you’ll see a “+1” option when you RSVP. If not, we kindly ask that you attend solo. Thanks so much for understanding!

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Can I bring my child to the event?

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We kindly ask that you make arrangements for your little ones, as our wedding will be a child-free celebration. We hope you enjoy a fun and relaxing evening with us!

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Will there be alcohol at the wedding?

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Of course! We will have an open bar after the ceremony serving wine and beer options, along with a couple of signature cocktails to choose from. There will also be plenty of non-alcoholic beverage options. Given the length of the celebrations, we encourage everyone to stay hydrated and please pace yourself! We don't want you to miss out on the countdown :D FYI: Our venue is very strict about not allowing any outside alcohol, and the bartenders are not allowed to serve shots. Please be mindful of these restrictions as you enjoy the festivities!

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Will the event be outside?

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Yes, parts of it! The ceremony will take place on an outdoor balcony, and cocktail hour will be held on a covered balcony. Don’t worry! Everything has solid, level flooring (no grass or mud), so high heels are totally fine. In the event that it gets cold, we'll make sure to set up heaters to keep everyone nice and cozy. The reception and dinner will be indoors, where we’ll dance the night away!

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Can I take my own photos during the wedding ceremony?

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We kindly ask that our ceremony be unplugged (no phones or personal cameras). This way, everyone can be fully present with us, and our professional photographers and videographers can capture the moments without interruptions or distractions (or phones in the background!).

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How long will the ceremony be? What will it look like?

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We’re keeping our Hindu ceremony short and sweet—under one hour. It will follow the Arya Samaj tradition, which focuses on simplicity, meaning, and Vedic values. You’ll see a few key rituals, including: Havan (sacred fire ritual): We make offerings to the fire, symbolizing purity and the presence of the divine. Sankalp (vows): We exchange heartfelt promises of love, respect, and partnership. Pheras (circling the fire): We walk around the fire together, taking seven symbolic steps that represent the foundations of a strong marriage. Sindoor and Mangalsutra: The groom places a red powder (sindoor) in the bride’s hair parting and ties a sacred necklace (mangalsutra) to signify commitment. The ceremony will be a blend of tradition and warmth—accessible even if you’re unfamiliar with Hindu rituals. We’re excited to share it with you!

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I'd love to dress up for the event! Where should I buy my Indian clothes?

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We would be so honored and thrilled! There are tons of options to choose from that should work for every type of budget. Many of these clothing companies offer the ability to tailor to your custom measurements, too! It's recommended to place your orders at least a couple of months ahead of time to account for shipping time. We are so excited to see your awesome outfits! Brick and mortar stores in Texas: - Manyavar (Houston & Dallas) https://g.co/kgs/JbMt4Gu https://g.co/kgs/XVUKehU - Palkhi Fashion (Houston) https://g.co/kgs/xXNWtHR - Dolly's Boutique (Houston) https://g.co/kgs/nB16fgE - Pearlings Designer Collection (Houston) https://g.co/kgs/Ze79A6T (jewelry) - Taj Fashion (Austin) https://g.co/kgs/c81h2ue Online stores: - Manyavar https://www.manyavar.com/en-us - Kynah https://shopkynah.com/ - Kalki fashion https://www.kalkifashion.com/ - Indian Wedding Saree (women's) https://www.indianweddingsaree.com/ - Koskii (women's) https://us.koskii.com/ - Samyakk https://www.samyakk.com/

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Will there be time between the ceremony and reception for me to change outfits?

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We’ll flow right from the ceremony into cocktail hour (about 1.5 hours) and then on to the reception and dinner, so there won’t be a long break to head home and change. The venue is cozy and doesn’t have space for everyone to switch outfits on-site, so we encourage you to come ready to celebrate the whole evening in your best look! Think of it as one seamless party from vows to midnight. 🎉

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes! There will be plenty of parking at the Videre Estate across from the ceremony building.

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What should I wear for the wedding ceremony and reception?

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This event dress code is formal, with suits/tuxes or Indian formal wear for the men and gowns or Indian formal for the ladies. We want you to have fun with what you wear! Glamour and sparkle is highly encouraged! Think: NYE Great Gatsby, with a big helping of Indian spice mixed in. Here's a Pinterest board to use as inspiration: https://pin.it/Xaj9uStKw

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What should I wear to the Haldi/Sangeet (Welcome Party) Event?

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The dress code for the event is "garden party", or Indian day-time cocktail attire. Here's a Pinterest board with some examples! https://pin.it/3n3Uj47qk For Western wear: think yellows, oranges, greens, floral print, garden party/cocktail outfits. For Indian clothing: anything that is yellow, orange, green, brightly colored should work well!