FAQs

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What to expect at an Indian Wedding?

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Indian weddings tend to span multiple days and incorporate several events that each play a significant part of the overall ceremony and celebration. On Friday night, there will be a Sangeet. On Saturday, there will be a Baraat, Hindu wedding ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception. Additional events will be held on Wednesday and Thursday for John & Komal's close family. During the Sangeet and Wedding Reception, you can expect lots of music and dancing. There will likely be several choreographed dances performed by family and friends. Everyone is encouraged to participate.

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What should I wear?

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For the Sangeet (Friday Night), we encourage guests to wear outfits that are bright and bold and don’t be afraid to accessorize or wear some fresh kicks. The dress code for the Wedding Ceremony and Reception will be formal evening attire, but please avoid red as the bride will be in that color – but fresh kicks are encouraged.

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Can I wear Indian Clothes?

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Absolutely! We would be delighted if you choose to embrace the festive spirit and wear Indian clothes to our wedding. Feel free to explore the vibrant and diverse world of Indian attire. For ladies, these could be saree's, lehenga's, salwar kameez's or anarkali suits. For men, these could include kurta-pajamas or sherwani's. We want you to be comfortable and enjoy the celebration in whatever attire makes you feel your best. If you're not familiar with Indian clothing or don't have access to it, that's completely fine too! Whether you decide to wear traditional Indian attire or opt for your favorite formal outfit, we're just excited to celebrate this special day with you. If you have any questions or need assistance with outfit ideas, feel free to reach out.

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What is a Sangeet?

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Sangeet is a pre-wedding celebration deeply rooted in South Asian culture, particularly in Indian weddings. Occurring a day or two before the wedding, Sangeet involves musical and dance performances by family and friends, showcasing cultural talents. Beyond entertainment, the ceremony fosters familial bonds, celebrating the impending union and cultural heritage of the couple. It is a vibrant expression of joy, combining artistic elements with communal celebration in the lead-up to marriage.

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What is a Baraat?

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The term "Baraat" refers to a ceremonial procession deeply rooted in South Asian cultural and matrimonial traditions. Originating from the Indian subcontinent, particularly prevalent in North India (where Komal's parents are both from), the Baraat signifies the groom's formal and celebratory arrival at the wedding venue. This elaborate procession typically involves the groom, accompanied by an entourage of close family members and friends, making a festive journey to the site of the impending nuptials. The Baraat is characterized by its exuberant display of cultural elements, including traditional music, dance, and often the groom's transportation on a decorated horse or in an ornate vehicle. John has elected to use a boat. The procession serves as a public proclamation of the groom's intent to wed, emphasizing the joyous union of two families. Symbolically, the Baraat marks the groom's transition from his familial home to that of the bride, embodying themes of love, commitment, and the merging of families. Our guests are invited to join the Baraat procession, accompanying John and his family as they make their way to the wedding venue. Music and dance are integral parts of the Baraat. This will involve walking, dancing, or simply being part of the lively and colorful parade.

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What will the Wedding Ceremony be like?

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During the wedding ceremony, Komal and John will be accompanied by their immediate family within a canopy-like structure known as a Mandap. Facilitating the proceedings, a Hindu religious official, referred to as a Pundit, will preside over the couple and their families, guiding them through various rituals. The Pundit will recite Hindu scriptures in Sanskrit, subsequently translating them into English for the benefit of the audience. It is anticipated that the entirety of the ceremony will extend for approximately one hour. There will be a program explaining the ceremony and steps for guests to read and follow along. There will be coffee, tea and water available for guests during the ceremony. However, there will be no food or alcohol.

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What are the games that the Bride and Groom play with their families?

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There are a lot of fun traditions surrounding Indian weddings. One is for the bride's sisters (or cousins/friends) to steal the groom's shoes as he takes them off before entering the Mandap. The groom must pay the sisters to get them back because he is supposed to leave the Mandap in the same shoes he came in with.

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What kind of food will there be?

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We will have American and Indian heavy appetizers at the Sangeet and Indian food buffet provided on Saturday night. There will be vegetarian options available both nights.

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Is there parking?

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The hotel only offers valet parking. There is also a self parking deck run by another company across from the hotel which is a cheaper option. Guest are encouraged to carpool where possible.

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When should I RSVP by?

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We ask that you RSVP as soon as possible, but no later than May 15, 2024.

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Will there be a registry?

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We are truly grateful and honored to have you share in our joyous celebration. Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift of all. As we embark on this new chapter of our lives, we've decided to forgo a traditional wedding registry. Instead, if you wish to give a gift, we kindly ask for your blessings in the form of a monetary contribution. Your generosity will help us build a foundation for our future together, and we appreciate your understanding and support.