FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by Friday, August 15, 2025.

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Is there a dress code?

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There sure is! Our wedding is black-tie formal. Think tuxedos or dark suits and ties for men and floor-length gowns or formal cocktail dresses for women. While October is San Francisco's warmest month of the year, it can still get chilly at night, so bring a cover-up if you run cold. The ceremony will be outdoors, cocktail hour will be indoors + outdoors, and dinner and dancing will be entirely indoors.

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Can I bring a plus one / date?

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Our lives are filled to the brim with the most incredible friends and family members -- how lucky are we?! We're maxing out our venue -- not a single open spot -- so only those listed on the website may attend. Thanks for understanding!

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Can I bring my kid(s)?

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We love your kiddos, but this is an adults-only weekend. We can't wait to celebrate with you -- and we hope you're looking forward to a weekend off! Thanks for understanding!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Welcome champagne starts flowing at 4:30pm and the ceremony starts at 5pm *sharp* -- don't be late! The venue and the Presidio -- the national park in which our venue is situated -- is beautiful, so get there early to take photos in front of the Golden Gate Bridge!

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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There is no parking onsite -- and we want you to have a good time! -- so please plan to Uber/Lyft/Waymo to the venue. The address is 135 Fisher Loop.

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what if i have dietary restrictions?

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Fear not -- we know who you are, and we have you covered! Our dinner buffet will feature plenty of vegetarian and gluten-free options.

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Are there any other events I should know about?

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Yes -- they can be found on the 'Schedule' section of the website.

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How should I plan to get around the city?

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San Francisco is tiny -- 7 miles by 7 miles, to be precise -- which makes it easy to navigate. Ubers/Lyfts/Waymos are all over the place and the Muni, our public transit system, is fab. San Francisco is also incredibly walkable -- it's tough to walk more than 5 minutes without stumbling upon a park -- so explore as much of the city by feet as you can!

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when should i fly into / out of san francisco?

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Our Friday (October 10) night welcome event starts at 6pm and wedding festivities will run from 4:30pm 'til late on Saturday (October 11), but there's a TON to do and see in San Francisco! If you can swing it, we recommend getting in Thursday and flying out Sunday or Monday to make the most of your time in the city.

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what should i see / do in san franciso?

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We're so glad you asked! Check out the 'Quintessentially San Francisco' section of our website for WAY TOO MANY things to see and do. We love our city and hope you do, too!

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Yes -- they can be found on the 'Travel' section of the website.

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Are you registered? Where?

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We'll publish our registry soon -- stay tuned!

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does anyone call san francisco "san fran"?

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No -- and you shouldn't either. "SF" is great -- "San Fran" is not. Thank you for your attention to this important matter!