6:00 pm - 8:00 pm
We're excited to kick the weekend off with drinks, light bites, and -- most importantly -- you! Drinks and appetizers are on us. We can't wait to see you! Attire: dressy casual. Nothing too fancy, but no shorts or t-shirts either. Think slacks and button-downs (sports coats optional) for gents and dresses or cute pants and tops for ladies. Transportation: parking downtown can be difficult, so we recommend taking an Uber/Lyft/Waymo or public transit. Entry: you must be 21+ to enter this venue. No exceptions. Sorry!
4:30 pm - 11:00 pm
This is it... the big day (gulp). And we're so glad you're a part of it! Attire: black-tie formal. Think tuxedos or dark suits and ties for men and floor-length gowns or formal cocktail dresses for women. October is San Francisco's warmest month (a delayed summer!) but it still gets chilly at night, so we recommend bringing some sort of cover-up if you run cold. The ceremony will be outdoors, cocktail hour will be indoors + outdoors, and dinner and dancing will be entirely indoors. Transportation: parking can be difficult -- and we want to maximize care-free fun! -- so we recommend taking an Uber/Lyft/Waymo.
Sat, Oct 11, 2025, 11:30 pm - Sun, Oct 12, 2025, 2:00 am
The venue kicks us out at 11pm, but fear not -- the party's far from over. We'll keep the good vibes rollin' (and the good drinks flowin') at the after-party. Grab your friends (new and old), find an Uber captain (details to come), and head to the Hawthorn (same venue as the welcome party on Friday night) to keep celebrating! IMPORTANT: Skip the line like the VIP you are! Let them know you're there for Kevin and Ben's wedding -- they'll check your ID, give you a wristband (for all you can drink!), and direct you to our reserved space. Attire: wedding clothes -- no need (or time!) to change. We're hoping for *at least* one ripped pair of pants. Entry: you must be 21+ to enter this venue. No exceptions. Sorry!