FAQs

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What if I forgot to RSVP?

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The deadline to RSVP for our wedding and make a meal selection is (Friday) September 1, 2023. We need an accurate headcount to ensure we can prepare and accommodate for all our guests. Any guest(s) who fail to respond by the RSVP deadline will be recorded in the final headcount as not attending. Regretfully, there will not be seats reserved for you at the ceremony or reception. Headcount impacts our table + seating arrangements, the pre-selected menu and the capacity of the venue. We encourage you to submit your RSVP as soon as possible. Even if you're unable to attend, please still take the time to fill out your RSVP.

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Are Kids Welcome?

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The short answer: If your child was invited, you will see a seat reserved in their honor on the wedding invitation. If your child was not invited, we ask that leave your child with a caretaker for the duration of the event. If an uninvited child is brought to the wedding, we will ask that they be removed. We hope you understand that our request is not a personal reflection on you or your children, but rather a necessity to ensure the comfort of all our guests and to meet the expectations of the bride + groom. We hope you see this as an opportunity to relax and enjoy the party with us! Everyone deserves a night away from the kids. We still adore and love your little ones! If this guideline restricts your ability to attend, please know that we completely understand. Please be sure to still fill out the RSVP. There will be no exceptions.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Unless specified on your formal invitation, no. You will only be able to RSVP for those we have extended an invitation to. The RSVP will not allow you to add an additional guest name. We apologize in advance, but we have already done our best to invite significant others and accommodate plus ones within our venue capacity and budget. We regret that we won't be able to accommodate any extra guests. We hope you understand and we're so grateful for your support!

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Can someone take the place of an invited guest who can't make it?

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No, the invitations are not open ended or transferable to whoever you wish to bring with you. Unless, your envelope was addressed with YOUR NAME & GUEST. We are not allowing one person to take another's spot. If the individual invited cannot attend, please decline the invite for that person. Example: You and your husband were invited. If your husband cannot attend, we ask that you do not find someone else to fill his spot (a sibling, friend, parent). Instead, decline the invite for your husband.

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Can I bring a guest after dinner + dessert for the dancing portion?

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We have carefully selected our closest family and friends to share our wedding night with. Unless formally invited by the bride or groom via an invitation, please refrain from bringing uninvited guests to all wedding celebrations.

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Do you have a wedding registry?

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Yes, please see the "Registry" tab on this website. Most of our wedding registry is through Zola. However, some of the items are linked from Amazon and will redirect you to purchase from Amazon. We are sorry we will be unable to open your gifts in person, but we greatly appreciate you accommodating our wishes to not travel with our gifts. A collection box will be at the bridal shower and the wedding for cards with cash or checks. Please use this registry for both the bridal shower and the wedding.

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If I gifted you something from your registry or gave towards a group gift, will you know it was from me?

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Rest assured, Zola keeps track of who purchased each gift! Although we will not have the traditional gift opening experience in-person at the bridal shower or wedding, please know your generosity does not go unnoticed. Thank you for accommodating our wish to not travel with our gifts!

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Can I take Photos or Videos During the Ceremony?

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We are having an "unplugged" ceremony, which means all devices are to be silenced and put away. Please no photos, no videos and no cell phone use during our ceremony. We ask that all guests follow this to be completely present during our special time! We can assure you that our very talented photographers and videographers will capture the moment perfectly. Feel free to take all the photos and videos you like after we say "I Do!"

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Where do I park?

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There will be free parking! There is an empty lot directly across the street of the venue, as well as street parking. If you are staying at the recommended hotel, you will be provided parking with your stay.

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What is on the Menu?

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ORE' DOURVES DURING COCKTAIL HOURS: Anti-Pasta Kabobs *Cash Bar will be open during this time. DINNER: Everyone will have a house salad and rolls + butter. Beer, soda and water will also be provided. Entree Option 1 - Grilled Chicken in a Wine Cream Sauce, Mashed Potatoes & Green Bean Casserole Entree Option 2 - BBQ Pulled Pork Sandwiches, Loaded Twice Baked Potato & California Vegetable Medley (Gluten Free Option) *All sandwiches will still come with the standard bun. Removal of the bun makes the meal gluten free. Entree Option 3 - Meat Lasagna DESSERT: Wide selection of cheesecakes! *There will be a Gluten Free option.

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will there be alcohol at the wedding?

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Yes! We will have a fully stocked cash bar and bartenders available during cocktail hour and the reception. The bride + groom will be providing beer, soda and water.

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Can I bring my own alcohol?

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No, absolutely not. This is non-negotiable. We kindly ask that you refrain from bringing your own alcohol to our wedding. The venue has strictly prohibited this in our contract, and we ask that you respect their rules and our wishes. If anyone is seen with alcohol not served by the venue staff, the Sepia team will confiscate the liquor and will ask that you leave the premises, as it puts our wedding and our guests at risk. Please do not jeopardize our special day by bringing "outside" alcohol. You are doing no one a favor by sneaking it in. Yes, even a little flask is prohibited. We hope that you can join us in celebrating without the need for "outside" beverages. If you must consume alcohol not served at the venue, we ask that you do so OFF the premises.

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Can I Smoke or Vape at the Wedding?

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We ask that our wedding venue remain SMOKE FREE. Please do not plan to use cigars/cigarettes, vaping devices and the like inside Sepia. If you must take a smoke break, please do away from the venue entrance.

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What will the weather be like?

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Two Rivers, WI the past few years: 2022: High 75°F | Low 37°F 2021: High 65°F | Low 44°F 2020: High 45°F | Low 29°F 2019: High 58°F | Low 42°F The weather is somewhat unpredictable. Fortunately, the event is fully indoors and has both heating and AC to accommodate various climates.

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Is there a dress code?

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We kindly request that all guests dress in semi-formal to formal attire that is appropriate for the occasion. We ask that you refrain from wearing sweatshirts, hoodies, graphic t-shirts, work clothes, holey jeans, work boots, etc., and instead choose attire that is tasteful and elegant. We want everyone to look their best and feel comfortable while celebrating with us on this special day.

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Will there be a viritual livestream of the wedding day?

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No, we are keeping this event private and in-person only.

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What Is the Best way to stay up to date with current information regarding the wedding?

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Please check this website every once in a while. This website reflects the most current and important information!