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October 23, 2021
Manyunk, PA
#theirstorybegins2021

Julia & Gene

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The Wedding Website of Julia Staley and Gene Stern
If you have any other questions feel free to reach out to our wedding coordinator, Scott.
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What is the venue address?

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For guests: type in your GPS 122 Green Lane, Philadelphia PA, which is the parking lot address: For musician/band: load in at. and follow the street around to the door on the sidewalk. There is reserved parking on the street for you there.

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Is there a dress code?

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Because this venue is quite unique and elegant, you can wear anything from semi-formal to black tie. We will be indoors for most of the event, but we encourage you to consider east coast fall weather when planning your outfit!

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What is a handfasting?

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“Handfasting is an ancient Celtic ritual in which the hands are tied together to symbolize the binding of two lives. While it is most often included in Wiccan or Pagan ceremonies, it has become more mainstream and pops up in both religious and secular vows and readings”

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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There will be valet parking at the event. When you arrive, look for 122 Green Lane, Philadelphia, PA, which is the address of the parking lot.

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When should I RSVP by?

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We need a headcount for the caterer about three months before, so as soon as you have those invitations, please contact us. You can also RSVP here on the website and avoid sending out more mail!

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Is there a registry?

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There is! Please click on the registry link in the menu above. While the greatest gift is celebrating our day with you, we do appreciate it, and are also taking donations towards our honeymoon!

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Please tell us as soon as you have the invitation and know you’re coming. As it turns out, the bride herself has a nut allergy so our caterers are already going to be on alert.

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Are kids welcome?

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This is a kids-free event. We don’t want you to have to worry about your little ones and would love it if you would come to have a special night out with us!

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Can I bring a date?

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At this time we are asking you to please limit yourself to only those printed on the invitations. We have a large number of out of town family coming in. We have tried very hard to plan for everyone’s potential dates, but if your situation changes prior to the wedding, please let us know no less than three months beforehand.

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I want to request music for the reception.

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Please send in up to three tracks you’d like to hear to (email) no less than three months before the wedding. Our DJ will be using synchronized lights and therefore cannot take any requests the day of. Please don’t be upset if one or more of your songs aren’t played - I’m sure it’s a bop, but there are only so many hours in the reception!

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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We recommend the Kimpton Hotel Monaco in Philadelphia, and the Marriot Aloft downtown where the bridal party will be staying. There is also a nice Courtyard Marriott close to the venue site.

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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We highly recommend you use Uber Events. We have a special code for the night set up which will give you a discounted rate. The code is [insert]

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Do we have to wear costumes for the wedding?

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No! While the bride and groom and many of their friends are wonderfully dramatic and theatrical folks, no one should be in costume. This is a wedding, after all.

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Is the wedding themed?

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The theme is “dark fantasy” and possibly “enchanted forest” ish. But by no means do you have to come dressed for said theme!

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Okay what is a LARP?

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LARP, or Live Action Roleplay is an immersive theatre experience in which someone takes on a character and becomes them for a weekend. It’s improv, Tabletop RPGs, video gaming, and exercise all rolled into one event. They come in different genres, like fantasy or wild west, or apocalyptic dystopia. See if you can guess which wedding guests are LARPers - it may surprise you to find out who still plays on occasion!

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What is a “storyteller” at a LARP?

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A storyteller is kind of like a screenplay writer/director if the director had to do whatever the actors and audience wanted while still telling their original story. Usually they come up with a sort of basic story for a weekend, a plot if you will, and work with a team of people or the director of the game to come up with it and execute it. It’s not an easy job (except for Gene, who is a natural) - it requires someone highly creative and adaptable who is able to improvise on their feet depending on how the players interact with their plot and characters! It’s a fun job for sure, and often is paid!

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