Officiant
Ethan is a mutual friend of Dani & Jimmy's, who was the perfect choice to officiate the wedding because of his dry wit, oozing charm, and general reticence.
Best Man
Jimmy's best friend from law school, Mark has played a big role in the couple's lives. He got Dani her second job out of law school, and now works with Jimmy as a public defender. Mark is also Ender's favorite person and his cat allergies mean Luke and Rohan simply can't get enough. He's basically part of the family.
Ring Bearer
Max is easily the most responsible member of the wedding party and thus has been entrusted with the (real) rings. He and Ender (the pup) hit it off immediately and so it was a no-brainer that they should escort each other down the aisle. PJ is Dani's nephew and bestest bud. His main role is seriously upping the cute-factor in the wedding, and also carrying (probably dummy) rings (he's three.)
Maid of Honor
Dani's sister and all-around rockstar, Michelle lives in Colorado with her husband (!!) and two insanely beautiful children. She played an instrumental role in planning the wedding, and all beautiful elements can be attributed to her keen design eye.
Flower Girls
Two of Dani's nieces and pair of future knock-outs, Eleanor and Lucy were the obvious choice to serve as flower girls. Plus, they really like tulle skirts. Win-win.
With Us in Spirit
Donald Miller James Sieben III