faq and awkward questions

Question

What does the dress code "Garden / Cocktail" mean?

Answer

Since our wedding starts in the afternoon and goes into night, a mixture of garden and/or cocktail attire is appropriate. Button down shirts (with or without suit jackets) and slacks, summer or cocktail dresses. No jeans, no t-shirts.

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Can I bring my kids?

Answer

While our wedding is not strictly child-free please realize there will be an open bar and non-censored music later in the evening. Toast makers will not be asked to make their toasts child-friendly. There are no children's activities planned, and there will not be childcare available on site. Use your best judgement for the ceremony itself. If your child cannot sit quietly for 30 - 45 minutes it may be best to hire a babysitter. If we invited you, we trust your judgement when it comes to your kids. You know them better than we do.

Question

Do I have to give a gift to come to the wedding, engagement party, bachelorette or bachelor party?

Answer

No gift giving is required for anyone invited to any our events. Please do not avoid celebrating with us due to financial strains or personal reasons for being unable to gift. Any gift would be incredibly appreciated but we want to see you! YOU being with us on our special day is what's important!

Question

What do I do if I am late to the ceremony and it has already begun?

Answer

If the ceremony has already started when you arrive we request you relax on the porch, perhaps have a drink at the bar, and wait for the ceremony to end. The party will come to you!

Question

I RSVP'd with a plus one, but I'd like to bring an extra person.

Answer

Please be aware that only guests who RSVP'd are accounted for in regards to food and drinks. We ask you to please contact us at least 3 weeks before the wedding regarding any extra guests (children included) that you'd like to bring.

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I would like to come to the wedding, but I didn't recieve an invitation. Does that mean you guys don't like me?

Answer

Are you our friend? Of course we like you! Unfortunately weddings are expensive. We can't invite everyone we consider our friend due to costs of invitations, save the dates, and food! If you were not invited but would like to be please reach out to us! Most likely we can fit you in.

Question

Can I wear a white dress with a colorful pattern on top?

Answer

Obviously we ask you not to wear a fully white dress to our wedding. But we also know how tricky dress shopping can be as a guest. If you find a dress you love but it is partially white please feel free to message Jessie and ask. She wrote these FAQs and will understand the question, as it has come up regarding other people's weddings (which is why it is on this list). If anyone gives you flack for your partially white dress at our wedding, redirect them to this question.

Question

Can I bring my dog/cat/pig/parrot?

Answer

While we will have our wonderful pups Watson & Dizzy as ring bearer & flower girl, we request other furry, feathered, or scaly friends to be left at home (with the exception of certified assistance dogs, of course). Watson & Dizzy get along great with other dogs, but are easily distracted and have very important jobs to do!