This is a shabby chic venue; a wood cabin meets dive bar type of club house on our lake. We’re going to jazz it up, so we advise outfits to be snazzy, but not formal. Brighter is better. Ladies, don't be afraid to wear vibrant colors and eye-catching sequins or beading. Indian guests can feel free to rock a traditional saree or lehenga, but don't worry—a jewel-tone dress with a shawl is appropriate too. Think loud, festive, disco, New Year's Eve type of outfits. For men, suits are not needed; vests, button downs with funky overalls, or other fun outfits are great.. show some personality!
See this guide for more details: https://vinesoftheyarravalley.com.au/what-should-a-westerner-wear-to-an-indian-wedding/
The Baraat is the groom's procession, where Rohan arrives to the ceremony on a decorated white horse. Guests dance around him to the beat of a dhol, an Indian drum. Basically the party starts here! Traditionally it is just the groom's side, but Jenn won't blame you if you want to be a part of it too (she is low key jealous). After that, Jenn and her family will greet the Baraat group, and Jenn and Rohan exchange floral garlands to symbolize their acceptance of each other.
For the ceremony, the priest, groom, bride and bride's parents sit beneath a mandap (i.e., a canopy). The ceremony starts off with the kanya daan, in which the bride's parents give her away. Then the couple joins hands and circles around a small, enclosed fire (the agni) in a ritual called the mangal phera. Then the couple will take the saptapadi, or seven steps, as they vow to support each other and live happily together. Finally, the groom will apply a red powder to the center of the bride's forehead and tie a black beaded necklace around her neck, symbolizing she's now a married woman.
Men, please give us the honor of seeing you in your favorite tux or suit. Ladies, floor length gowns (FYI bridesmaids will be in wine color). This is a formal event. Thanks!
Friday night, kids are welcome. For Saturday evening, please either leave the kids at home so they can rest up for Halloween, or reach out to Jenn to for exceptions prior to September 1. Thank you!