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When should I RSVP by?When should I RSVP by?

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We ask that you RSVP by January 1st, 2026—the earlier, the better. We’ve reserved the entire Trois Estate and are covering the cost of rooms for many of our guests. That said, space is limited, so we need to know as soon as possible who will be staying onsite with us and who prefers to make other arrangements. There’s absolutely no obligation to stay on the property or join in on every part of the weekend. Come for the ceremony, come for the wine, come for whatever works for you—we just want to celebrate with the people we love most, in whatever way feels right for you.

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Are you registered? Where?Are you registered? Where?

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Yes! We’ve created a Zola registry, and instead of blenders or bath towels, we’re inviting you to help us build our dream honeymoon. Think starlit dinners, ocean breezes, and a few silly splurges we’ll remember forever.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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The ceremony begins at 5 PM on Saturday in the courtyard. We recommend arriving by 4:30 PM to give yourself time to wander in, grab a drink, and take it all in before the vows begin.

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Is there a dress code?Is there a dress code?

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Yes—and it’s simple: Outdress the bride. Wear that one outfit you’ve never had a reason to wear. Sequins? Yes. Velvet capes? Obviously. Floor-length tulle or a three-piece suit in chartreuse? Please. Colors? All of them. Patterns? The wilder, the better. White? Why not! We believe fashion is fantasy—and this is your moment.

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Can I bring a date?Can I bring a date?

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If your invitation says "and guest," then yes! If not, we kindly ask that you fly solo so we can stay within our capacity. We promise you won’t be alone in that—this is a party full of friends waiting to meet each other.

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Are kids welcome?Are kids welcome?

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Yes. While this will be mostly a grown-up affair, our guests with little ones are absolutely welcome to bring them. We’ll have space to roam and snacks to share.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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We’ve booked out the Trois Estate for many of our guests. If you're interested in staying at the Trois Estate with us, please let us know early. For everyone else, Fredericksburg is full of delightful Airbnbs and boutique inns, just a short drive away. We suggest booking early—spring in the Hill Country fills up fast.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes, there is ample parking onsite at Trois Estate. You'll see signs once you arrive—no need to stress.

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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As most guests will be staying on the property or nearby, we aren’t providing group transportation. Rideshares (like Uber or Lyft) are an option, though limited in the area, so we recommend carpooling or arranging a designated driver if you’re staying offsite.

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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?

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Yes—this is a full weekend celebration! Here’s a peek: Friday: Arrivals, saloon drinks at 7 PM, casual welcome dinner (possibly burgers under the stars), and stargazing on the Skydeck. Saturday morning: Breakfast, yoga, sound baths, and a hike to Enchanted Rock. Saturday evening: Ceremony at 5 PM, followed by dinner, dancing, and a few magical surprises (tattoos? tarot? tintypes? time will tell). Sunday: Breakfast, grotto pool lounging, vineyard visits, and a farewell feast. Stay tuned for a more detailed itinerary closer to the date.