Jewish Weddings

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What is a Ketubah?

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The Ketubah is a marriage contract, which outlines our responsibilities to one another. The Ketubah must be signed by two witnesses and has the standing of a legally binding agreement. Our Ketubah is handmade by the amazing Annie Aqua https://www.annieaqua.com/. During the ceremony we will sign it, along with the Rabbi and two witnesses.

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What is the ceremony like?

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The ceremony takes about 30 minutes. It takes place under the chuppah (canopy), a symbol of the home we will build together. We'll circle each other, which alludes to the process of creation and celebrates the creation of our new home. We'll share some wine and you will hear some blessings (in Hebrew and English). We'll also exchange rings, which is the legal enactment of the Jewish wedding.

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How does the ceremony end?

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We'll break glass together (and you will shout Mazel Tov!) Breaking glass is a reminder that even in the happiest of moments, we recall the pain and suffering of the Jewish people, and we remember that the world is always in need of healing.

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Do I need to wear anything special?

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Nope! We'll provide the kippot (you might know them as yarmulkes), which are head covers typically worn by men. It is not mandatory and anyone can wear one. It is considered a sign of respect for Non-Jews to wear them, but again not mandatory.

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Is the food kosher?

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No, but if that's something you need, please indicate that when you RSVP. We will not serve pork or shellfish.

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What is that dance?

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It's the Hora! In this tradition, guests hoist the bride and groom high above the crowd on chairs to the sounds of "Hava Nagila". Friends and family dance around in an ecstatic circle as the elevated couple tries not to look (or fall) down. If you're feeling nervous about participating, don't be! There will be many seasoned experts to guide you!