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If you have a question other than those listed here, please feel free to text or email us!
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What should I wear to the Welcome Party?

Answer

The dress code is smart casual! Think date night attire. Ideas for the guys: khakis/jeans and a button down Ideas for the ladies: casual dresses, skirts, jeans and a cute blouse

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What should I wear to the ceremony and reception?

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The event is black tie optional. If you have a tux and want to wear it, go for it! Josh and the wedding party will be wearing them. Suits are also a great option. Long or midi dresses for ladies. The ceremony will be on the roadside, so plan your heels accordingly. Note: the wedding party will be wearing black - and you are welcome to match! White is reserved for the bride.

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What if my plans change after I have already RSVP-ED?

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If for some reason your plans change after you submit your RSVP, please edit your RSVP response and follow-up with a text or email to us as soon as you can!

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What else is there to do in Big Sur?

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We’re so excited to have you visit Big Sur, particularly in the autumn. We’ve highlighted some of our favorite spots on the “Things to Do” page. For those traveling from out-of-town, we’d encourage you to explore Northern California before or after your trip to Big Sur! We’re just a short drive to Monterey, Carmel, Paso Robles, Yosemite, & San Francisco!

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What is the best way to contact you?

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Feel free to reach out to either of us directly! Our emails are jjmerle@gmail.com and braviabbi@gmail.com.

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