FAQs

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When is the deadline to RSVP?

Answer

For Pennsylvania, please RSVP by August 3rd, but if you're like Ivy and have poor time management, please RSVP absolutely no later than August 24th. For Colorado, please RSVP by October 3rd.

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What should I wear to the Pennsylvania celebration?

Answer

Dressy casual. Gentleman, no need to wear a full suit if you would feel more comfortable in casual pants and a sports coat, or a shirt with a vest, shirt with suspenders, and no pressure to wear a tie! Ladies, the ceremony is on a grassy lawn, so spiked heels may get stuck. If you prefer nice pants and top, a sundress, a cocktail dress, or a long dress, just feel comfortable!

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What should I wear to the Colorado celebration?

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We will have yard games out on the turf lawn where the reception will be (as long as we have dry weather) so wear something comfortable for Can Jam throwing, corn hole, and giant Jenga. No obligation to dress fancy, please look nice but be comfortable!

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I heard the bride is wearing blue, what if I want to wear blue, too?

Answer

If you like blue as much as Ivy or already have a blue dress you planned to wear, do it! You should all know who the bride is, and she's not laying sole claim to the color. Just please don't come to the event in a wedding dress.

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Can I propose to my significant other at your wedding?

Answer

While we are thrilled for anyone to take that next step in their relationship, we kindly ask that you respect all of the planning and effort that went into creating this celebration of our love and do not propose to your partner at our wedding.

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I saw my kids are on the invite, are they really allowed? Do I have to bring them?

Answer

If we invited your children, we want you to know they are welcome to attend, as we will have other family and friends bringing their children. If you would prefer to leave them at home with a qualified babysitter or family member and have an adults night out, that is fine too! Please just indicate if they will be joining you when you RSVP.