FAQs

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What Is The Attire for the wedding?

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Formal. For men, a suit and tie is requested; for women, midi or maxi dresses are appropriate. Please plan for a light layer, as May evenings on the Bay can be cool and breezy. When choosing footwear, note that guests will walk along a wooden dock between the ceremony and reception. The Bay Head Yacht Club maintains a formal dress code, which prohibits denim of any kind, sneakers for men, and cut-out or two-piece crop-top dresses for women.

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What is the attire for the welcome party?

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“Yacht Club Casual.” For men, khaki or similar pants and button-down shirts are appropriate; jackets are optional. For women, cocktail dresses, midi or maxi dresses, or jumpsuits are recommended. Layers are encouraged, as the welcome party will take place in a combination indoor/outdoor setting, and May evenings on the Bay can be cool and breezy. Please note that denim and t-shirts are not permitted in accordance with the club’s dress code.

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HOW DO I GET TO THE CEREMONY?

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Shuttles will be provided to the Ceremony & Reception at Bay Head Yacht Club: - 4:15 PM departure from The Bentley Inn - 4:30 PM departure from Point Pleasant Manor Please be ready and waiting a few minutes before departure, as shuttles will leave promptly. Shuttles will remain on-site at BHYC following the ceremony to transport guests who prefer not to walk from the Dale Building to the main clubhouse. Return Transportation: Shuttles will begin departing BHYC at 11:00 PM Service will run to The Bentley Inn and Point Pleasant Manor, with a stop at The Ark afterparty. For those who prefer to drive, complimentary valet parking will be available at the Yacht Club. Upon arrival, Bay Head Yacht Club staff will be on hand to direct you to the ceremony location.

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Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony will take place in a covered, open-air boathouse overlooking the Bay. Cocktail hour will follow on the clubhouse terrace, weather permitting. Dinner and dancing will be held indoors within the main clubhouse. All locations are on-site at the Bay Head Yacht Club.

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Are Children Invited?

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While we love your little ones, our wedding will be an adults-only celebration. We appreciate your understanding and hope you enjoy a night out by the Bay!

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what is the best way to get around bay head?

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You can always drive, but parking near the beach and in central Bay Head can be limited, especially on weekends. We encourage guests to explore on foot or rent bikes to enjoy the town’s charming coastal atmosphere. While Uber and Lyft are available, please note that rides can be limited—particularly late at night—so plan transportation accordingly. For local rental options, please visit our “Things to Do” page for bike rental suggestions and other nearby activities.

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When should I RSVP by?

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The earlier the better! Please let us know if you plan on celebrating with us by March 25, 2026.