Q&A

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WHAT IS THE ATTIRE? WHAT SHOULD I WEAR?

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The attire/dress code for the Bride and Groom's wedding is Semi-Formal or Cocktail. This is an outdoor event. However, ladies should feel free to wear gowns or cocktail dresses, and gentlemen should wear a sports coat or suit and tie. Please join Hank & Nicole's color story/color palette by wearing blue or a shade of blue. IMPORTANT NOTE: Please reconsider wearing perfume, cologne or scented oils to the wedding. The Bride is hypersensitive to multiple, strong fragrances and this may also create an issue for other guests.

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WHAT TIME SHOULD I ARRIVE?

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The ceremony will start promptly. Therefore, please plan to be seated by 10:30 AM.

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WHEN IS THE RSVP DEADLINE? DO I NEED TO MAIL BACK MY RSVP CARD OR CAN I SUBMIT IT ONLINE?

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Please RSVP by June 30, 2022. RSVP's will not be accepted after this date. You may return your RSVP card via mail. However, in the Wedding website you may find that you have been invited to other festivities during the week such as: Wedding rehearsal, Meet & Greet - Welcome Event or the After Party. The Bride and Groom will need you to RSVP because this is very important for planning purposes. Please RSVP even if you are in the Wedding party or participating in the Ceremony. If you are no longer able to attend after submitting your "Attending" RSVP, the Bride and Groom ask that you revisit this Wedding website to change and update your response. You can do so by clicking the "RSVP" tab in the menu, enter your name, and change your status.

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MY INVITATION INCLUDED A TICKET(S). DO WE NEED TO PAY FOR THE TICKETS? CAN WE PURCHASE MORE?

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No. These exclusive tickets have been paid for by the Bride & Groom and provided to you via your mailed wedding invitation. If you have not received your wedding invitation with your ticket(s), please email this concern to: LaToya Kirkman Bridal Assistant RSVP/VIP Coordinator bkbylk14262@gmail.com ~or~ Call: (734) 695-1080 Please be advised that you will need your personal/assigned ticket, Driver's License or other form of identification to gain access to the private Strolling Brunch Reception hosted by the new Mr. & Mrs. and Infinity-Ovation Yacht Charters. There are no additional or extra tickets and they cannot be purchased. Therefore, please do not contact the Bride or Groom with this request. If you do not have your ticket for the reception, you will be denied access to the Infinity Yacht.

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CAN I ATTEND THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION IF I FORGET TO RSVP?

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You may be allowed to attend the Ceremony. However, you will be denied access to Reception which requires that you RSVP. Please note that sending RSVP's past June 30, 2022 or failing to respond can create a stressful dilemma for the Bride and Groom who need an accurate headcount for planning. Please save them from having to inquire about whether or not you'll be there by promptly returning your RSVP card and adding your RSVP to this wedding website as soon as you receive your exclusive Wedding invitation.

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WHAT IS A COMPLETELY UNPLUGGED OR DEVICE FREE WEDDING?

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The Bride and Groom desire to have a private, completely UNPLUGGED and DEVICE FREE ceremony and reception. They really want you to be fully present with them as they become Husband and Wife. Please refrain from taking pictures, videos, posting or live streaming to social media. Please turn off or silence your phones and keep them put away during the ceremony and reception. Being glued to a screen during the ceremony is rude, especially if the couple has indicated they'd prefer a UNPLUGGED or PHONE-FREE celebration. Don't worry about missing "the" shot-the couple hired a photographer and videographer for a reason, and if you're trying to document every big moment on your phone, you're probably going to be in their way. Please be advised that the Bride and Groom will not be posing for non-professional photos. They will look to share professional photographs when they become available. Thank you in advance for your cooperation.

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WHY HAVE THE BRIDE & GROOM BANNED PHONES, INCLUDING TAKING PICTURES, VIDEOS AND POSTING TO SOCIAL MEDIA DURING THEIR WEDDING CEREMONY AND CELEBRATION?

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~The Bride and Groom want to be able to see your smiling faces versus having screens staring back at them. ~The professional photographers will have clear shots and won’t have to compete with people getting in their way. ~ Finally, banning phones means less stress for the entire event. The couple won’t need to stop and pose for requests for pictures and can instead focus on greeting guests, dancing, and thoroughly enjoying their day.

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ARE KIDS WELCOME?

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The Bride and Groom are having an adults only ceremony and reception.

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CAN I BRING A PLUS ONE, FRIEND OR A DATE?

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If your invitation did not include a Plus One or "and Guest" or Guest RSVP designation on your wedding invitation, the Bride & Groom respectfully request that you do not bring one. The couple's guest list consists of family, close friends and very few acquaintances. Every person that the Bride and Groom has invited has special meaning to them and have played an integral part in their lives. For this reason, they have planned a private, intimate ceremony and reception. Please respect their wishes and do not contact the couple with requests to bring additional people, request additional tickets or change up and bring uninvited guests. Thank you for your cooperation.

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DO I NEED TO WEAR A MASK?

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UPDATED 07/18/2022 Masks are optional and are not required for the ceremony (outdoors) or reception which will take place on board the Infinity ( indoors). It is your prerogative to wear a mask or not. For your information, please be advised that you will need to wash and sanitize your hands as you enter the reception location.

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WHERE SHOULD GUESTS PARK? IS PARKING FREE?

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Yes, parking is free and onsite. Safe Harbor Jefferson Beach Marina will have parking near the ceremony site. When you enter the marina and drive through to the back end, you will see a large parking lot surrounded by privately owned Yachts.

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WILL THERE BE A RECEIVING LINE?

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No. The Bride and Groom have opted to skip this tradition. They will give table greetings in a less formal manner during the Strolling Brunch reception. At that time you will be able to have professional photographs taken with them.

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WILL THERE BE ASSIGNED SEATING OR A SEATING CHART FOR THE RECEPTION?

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UPDATED 07/18/2022 There will be a group of people with reserved seating. The Strolling Brunch Reception and Infinity experience is set up so that you can freely flow around the Infinity. The Bride and Groom would prefer that you mingle and fellowship wherever you’d like between the two levels on the Infinity.😊 Please note that there will be additional seating on the 2nd floor of the Yacht.

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CAN THE WEDDING PARTY HAVE DRINKS PRIOR TO THE CEREMONY?

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Yes. However, the Bride and Groom respectfully ask on behalf of their Photography and Videography teams that you do not overindulge in pre-wedding champagne, liquor, etc. Please save the Cocktails for the Cocktails hour and go easy on the bridal suite champagne since indulging in too many pre-ceremony drinks can derail the Bride and Groom's photo schedule.

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10 Ways You're Being a Bad Wedding Guest Are you unintentionally being rude at a wedding?

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Martha Stewart Weddings By Nicole Harris A bride and groom put lots of time, energy, and resources into planning a picture-perfect wedding. That's why guests should respect the couple (and the effort that put into their nuptials) by practicing stellar wedding etiquette and avoiding any major social faux pas. Not sure how to behave? If you're doing any of the ten things below, you may be unintentionally being a bad guest. Not responding to the RSVP. Everyone has a busy schedule, and sending back your wedding RSVP is something that might slip your mind, especially if you have to consult with your significant other or boss about the date. But RSVPing past deadline, or failing to respond at all, creates a stressful dilemma for the couple who need an accurate headcount for their vendors. Save them from having to call to inquire about whether or not you'll be there by promptly sending your response card. Bringing an uninvited plus-one. Thinking about bringing your new boyfriend to the celebration? Unless your invitation permitted indicated that you were invited with a plus-one, plan to ride solo for the night. There are a variety of different reasons why a couple may not be able to accommodate an additional guest at their venue, or else they may have wanted to celebrate with only their nearest and dearest in attendance. Not following the dress code. If the invitation called for cocktail attire, don't show up in a formal floor-length gown. It's also rude to wear anything that's too flashy or revealing, no matter what the dress code is, as you'll draw attention away from the couple. And it should go without saying that a guest should never wear a white dress to a wedding, even if it's cocktail-length or covered in a pattern. Drinking too much. It's okay to indulge at the open bar, but don't go overboard. The bride and groom shouldn't have to deal with an unruly, disruptive, and overserved guest on their wedding day.

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10 Ways You're Being a Bad Wedding Guest Are you unintentionally being rude at a wedding? (continued)

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Complaining about anything. The chicken dinner may taste extremely bland, but don't express your disapproval since those negative reviews may find their way back to the couple. The same rule goes for the rest of the wedding's details, like the décor, reception music, and venue-if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all. Constantly pulling out your phone. Snapping a few pictures at the reception isn't a problem, but being glued to a screen during the ceremony is rude, especially if the couple has indicated they'd prefer a phone-free celebration. Don't worry about missing "the" shot-the couple hired a photographer for a reason, and if you're trying to document every big moment on your phone, you're probably going to be in their way. Raising concerns with the couple. Got lost on your way to the ceremony? Sitting in traffic and worried you might be late? Don't call or text the bride or groom. They'll be busy getting ready and taking pictures, and they shouldn't have to worry about any issues involving guests. Instead, contact the maid of honor, best man, another guest, or the couple's wedding planner. Switching seats at the reception. Never try to switch assigned seats at the reception, even if you're unhappy with the location. The bride and groom spent hours planning their seating chart, and having you change locations will throw everything off. Remember that you'll only be sitting during dinner-you can make it through an hour sitting with anyone. Giving an unexpected toast. Unless the bride or groom has asked you to give a toast, don't clink your glass and command the room. The couple likely put much thought into their toasts, and an impromptu speech will rub them the wrong way. Requesting a song. If the DJ asks for song requests, go for it! But if not, don't ask him to play a particular song, since the couple may have a predetermined playlist.

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WHAT IS THE DIVINITY BRAID or CORD OF THREE STRANDS CEREMONY?

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The cord of three strands symbolizes the joining of one man, one woman, and God into a marriage relationship. The cord of three strands ceremony is a great addition to a traditional wedding ceremony. It adds a truly unique element to your ceremony that friends and family will remember. It can also serve as a substitute for the unity candle. This is useful for situations where candles may not be used, or may be difficult. The Cord of Three Strands works well as a substitute in outside weddings. At some point in the wedding ceremony, the bride and groom braid the Cord of Three Strands together. The groom holds a small metal ring with three attached strands. The bride then braids the strands together, symbolizing the union of God, husband and wife. The colors of the cords are significant. Gold Strand - Represents God  The divinity of God is represented in Gold. This covenant relationship is initiated by Him, will be built under His authority, and is intended to glorify Him.    Purple Strand - Represents the Groom  As a new creation in Christ, the majesty of the Groom is represented in purple. As the husband loves his wife and submits himself to the Lord, the Lord in turn will demonstrate His great love in the marriage relationship.    White Strand - Represents the Bride  Having been cleansed by salvation in Christ, the purity of the Bride is represented in white. As the wife honors her husband and submits herself to the Lord, the Lord in turn will nurture and strengthen the marriage relationship.