Wedding Party
Hannah Flex
Maid of Honor
Hannah is my big sister and best friend. Our friendship was rocky at first--being an annoying little sister is not conducive for deep friendship--but sharing a room forced us to get along. And in between squabbles about dirty laundry and keeping each other up too late, she became my best friend, my role model, confidant, and the person I just can't live without. No one gets my humor like Nonnie. She's sassy, understanding, hilarious, and incredibly accomplished. She inspires me every day. She has stood by me through so many different paths in life, and I can't imagine not having her with me as I walk down the aisle.
Eli Hixon
Best Man
Eli and I were chance roommates, now best friends. As we both tried to get back to NYC during the COVID lockdowns, Brent Buterbaugh connected us with an apartment. We become roommates before having any real conversation. But since 2020, we’ve shared a bunkbed and a host of stories. Our friendship grew beyond our apartment as we started to grocery shop together, take the same electives, and even attend the same church for a time. Eli is the embodiment of kindness, perseverance, and a good time. We share a love of good coffee, a well executed movie / TV show, and a pursuit of wholistic growth. Eli’s seen it all – from the ups-and-downs of college to the chaos of post-graduate life – and remained my loyal, best friend. Everyone should have a friend like Eli in their life.
Danya Fregoso-Brody
Bridesmaid
I met Danya in the 4th grade, but we really became friends in middle school when we ended up in the same home-school assembly (she was the only reason I survived our gym class). We bonded over our love of art, and our fierce hatred for A Beka Academy geometry. After high school, Danya and I decided to attend COD together and the rest, as they say, is history. I like to describe Danya as my personal ray of sunshine--she makes my whole life, brighter, warmer, and more full of life. Everything is funnier when she's around, life is easier to manage, things are far more beautiful through her eyes. I bawled my eyes out when I stood as her Maid of Honor last July, and I know she'll return the favor ;) I'm grateful to have her stand beside me as a Bridesmaid on my special day.
Brent Buterbaugh
Groomsman
Brent and I go way back, from my first moments in New York City in 2019. As I began my time at King’s, Brent took me under his wing, since I was commuting almost an hour to campus and was struggling to connect with other freshmen. We bonded over a shared love of hospitality, political homelessness, and King’s. We eventually became roommates in 2020 and served in student government together. Brent is unique — striking a balance between ideation and execution, leading and being led, and truth and grace. From late night conversations to public speaking, I’ve known Brent to be a man of generosity, deep convictions, and honor. I am incredibly grateful to have shared so many of my formative New York experiences with him.
Myriah Garcia-Sheneman
Bridesmaid
Myriah and I were introduced right before the COVID-19 shutdown. We went out for a "quick" coffee, and five hours later I knew I'd found a true friend. We weathered COVID together through parking lot hang-outs, summer bonfires, and lots of texts. In 2021, we both attended college out of state, but the distance truly made the heart grow fonder and we became closer than ever-catching up over hours long facetime calls and exchanging letters and cards and venmos for coffees on hard days. I had the privilege of being Myriah's Maid of Honor as she wed the love of her life last October, and I'm honored to have her as my Bridesmaid as I wed mine.
Micah Sheneman
Groomsman
Just from the picture above, you know Micah and I have a lot in common — red beards, broad shoulders, long hair, and great style. But over the last few years, I’ve grown to appreciate Micah’s commitment to excellence, integrity, and service. We met in Naperville at the Lou Malnati's in 2022, where Liv and her friends pranked us into wearing matching t-shirts. Micah and I bonded over our shared love of healthy masculinity, LEGOs, and our faith. Micah is the embodiment of the maxim “service over self” and is one of the hardest working men I know, as both a tradesmen and a church volunteer. Him and his wife are some of me and Liv’s dearest friends in IL. While our friendship has been largely over FaceTime calls and Instagram, I’m looking forward to spending my wedding day with him at my side.
Elinore Straughn Keith
Bridesmaid
When I tell people about Graeme's family, I love bragging that I lucked out in the sister-in-law department. Elinore is goofy, scheming, kind hearted and genuine. Her love for her family is so evident, and I'm grateful to be counted among them. We became acquainted during our time at The King's College (thanks to Dr. White's New Testament class), but I found a friend in Elinore one sticky summer night on the Upper West Side over a basket of chips and salsa and a few ice cold Cokes. On a whim, Elinore and I went to a symphony concert and then grabbed dinner after--three hours later I could've cried with thankfulness knowing I could have a sister in law like her. Over the last two years we have cried, commiserated and celebrated so much life together. In June, I stood beside her as a bridesmaid and she'll return the favor in September.
Joseph Kowalick
Groomsman
I met Joey in 4th grade but our friendship didn’t really flourish later in high school. During my gap year, Joey and I regularly met at a local Starbucks . What started as conversations about college courses and deadlines grew into a friendship that weathered the COVID lockdowns. Over countless cups of coffee, I got a firsthand look into Joey’s love for God, for personal growth, and for his friends. We share a love of our friends, the Christian tradition, and a good bourbon. Even since I moved to New York, he’s continued to be one of my closest friends. He’s been a constant person who I’ve processed pain and celebrated beauty with. Joey’s the kind of man who is always seeking greater depth, seen so clearly through his intentional questions, honest introspection, and loyalty.
Elizabeth Bjorvik
Bridesmaid
Elizabeth, whom I affectionately call "Beezoo," is my second biggest sister. Growing up, people always said we looked the most alike and I take that as a big compliment. Beezoo was a steady presence growing up. I have lots of happy memories of bonfires and movie nights at her little yellow house on the hill. She inspires me in generosity, tenacity, and wisdom. When I got older, I would always leave her house with more than I had come in with--whether that was fresh baked goods, a basket of homegrown veggies, or a piece of unique art that one my nieces had made. Our friendship has evolved so much over the years, but I'm grateful for every moment. I was a Bridesmaid in her wedding when I was eleven, and now 13 years later she'll be mine. <3
Isaac Flex
Groomsman
Isaac and I hit things off the first weekend we met. If you know the Voegtles, you know they’re a rowdy, loving, tight-knit unit and Isaac graciously helped bring me into the fold. While he was in New York for Olivia’s graduation, Isaac went out of his way to include and get to know me. Since then, he’s has been the big brother figure I’ve needed. We share an eerily similar sense of humor and way of processing – along with a love of a good debate. Isaac can truly talk to anyone; he’s always got a hilarious anecdote or thoughtful question up his sleeve. He (and his wife Hannah) were my biggest supporters throughout the pre-engagement journey and continue to be some of my favorite people. I’m thankful to call Isaac a friend and thrilled to (soon) call him a brother!
Abigail Murphy
Bridesmaid
Abby was my very first friend. When we were younger, the Murphy and Voegtle families did life together--homeschool field trips, summer vacations, and play dates with all the kiddos. As we got older, Abs and I drifted apart but, by the grace of God reconnected in college and have been close ever since. No matter how much time passes, Abby is the person I can call no matter what. Whether we go two days or six months without talking, we pick right back up like no time has passed. I think little Abs and Liv would be so pleased to see the women we are today!
Joseph Voegtle
Groomsman
If you’ve spent any time with Joseph, you know he’s the rare combination of a good time *and* a good man. Joseph and I met during Olivia’s college graduation, when I was running on less than an hour of sleep. He was cracking jokes the whole day and I immediately knew we’d be friends. He and his wife Donna (and their daughter!) have generously hosted me whenever I’ve been in Warrenville and stay up late into the night talking about everything from the Catholic tradition to silly prank ideas to childhood stories. Joseph demonstrates hospitality and hard work like no other — going above and beyond to serve his community and support his family. Marrying Liv is the gift of a lifetime but it’s been incredibly sweet to finally have an older brother along the way.
Donna Voegtle
Bridesmaid
Donna is my sister-in-law, but I'm lucky enough to call her friend as well! When she started dating Joseph, I was skeptical--as I think most little sisters are of their brother's significant other. But I was quickly won over by Donna's heart for others, her ridiculous sense of humor, endless pranks, and ultimately, her deep love for my brother. She immediately jumped into the Voegtle way of life, spending Saturdays at the track and summer nights at bonfires or cracking jokes at Mom and Dad's dinner table. We have always had an easy friendship, brimming with long talks, laughter, and a shared passion for life. When Graeme and I started dating, Donna was such a big encouragement to me--providing insight in hardship, and cheering us on in our victories. I'm grateful to have such a friend stand beside me on my wedding day.
Andrew Johnson
Groomsman
Drew and I have been friends since I was 6 years old, when our parents began working. For most of the year, our friendship was seen through phone calls but the summers were spent exploring FL or CO. Since we've never lived in the same state, we've had to connect over shared interests, stages of life, and challenges. Our phone calls have seen it all – from LEGOs to middle school crushes to college courses to philosophy, and (more recently) marriage and parenting. Give Drew a call if you want to cover classical liberalism, Florida humidity, and the outrageous cost of childcare within a 15 minute timeframe! He's played an instrumental role in my life, challenging growth in my faith and demonstrating what it means to be a man of deep convictions and integrity.