The wedding is cocktail attire, which means fancy, but not black tie (no need to wear a tuxedo!) Feel free to have some fun with your outfit, but most importantly we want you to be comfortable!
Yes, there is plenty of parking at the venue! We are also providing bus shuttle service from downtown Durham.
The ceremony will begin at 4:00PM. Our shuttle service will ensure that all guests arrive to Rock Quarry Farm around 3:30 pm. If you drive yourself, we recommend arriving approximately 15-30 minutes early to leave time to park and find your seats.
We will send invitations over the summer. Please plan to RSVP by September 3rd, 2026!
Yes, when you RSVP, please indicate any allergies or dietary restrictions!
We love your children and toddlers! However, we are hoping to have an adults only wedding, which means that if you are traveling in from out of town and want to enjoy North Carolina with your family, we ask that you arrange for childcare on Saturday night. Let us know if you need help finding a local babysitter, and please reach out if you have questions! For folks who will have young infants in October, we do understand that your baby will need to come with you to the wedding. Otherwise, we hope that new parents take this opportunity for a Saturday night out or weekend away!
Yes! Rock Quarry Farm is a largely outdoor venue with an event barn. Temperatures in October in North Carolina tend to be mild, but please check the weather day-of for the most up-to-date forecast! We recommend wearing (relatively) sensible footwear as well, since you'll be walking on gravel and grass.