FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP by May 15th 2025 by clicking the RSVP tab in the menu above. Please RSVP "not attending" if you are unable to join us. If you are not able to RSVP "attending" or "not attending" by May 15th 2025, we will assume that you are unable to attend.
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What hotel do you recommend?
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Yes! See the "accomodations" tab above. We will be staying at Inn by the Sea in La Jolla, we have a block rate for you if you would like to use it!
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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Our ceremony will begin promptly at 4pm so we kindly request that you arrive 30 minutes early to assure you don't miss anything. This will give you time to sign our guest book and find your seat.
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Is there a dress code?
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We would love to see our friends and family dressed up for our big day! Please dress to impress in your best semi formal or cocktail attire. Tuxes and gowns are welcome, and so are suits and cocktail dresses. Please avoid jeans/denim and shades of white. The ceremony and reception will be held outside.
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What shoes should I wear?
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Whatever shoes you feel comfortable in. Please keep in mind the property is all cobblestone/brick, opting for a block heal instead of stiletto could be a good idea!
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Can I bring a date?
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We kindly ask that only the guests who have been formally invited & named on their wedding invitation join us on our big day. We have decided to include a named date for every guest attending that has been seeing their significant other for a year or more from the time we send invites out (Feb 2025).
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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?
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We would love if you would support us in our vision of having an unplugged ceremony, meaning that once the ceremony begins, we ask that all phones be put away and silenced. We are so excited to have everyone be fully present with us and for our photographer to be able to capture the best (phone free) photos which we will share with you asap! Once the ceremony is over, feel free to take as many photos as you would like, and don't forget to share them with us!
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Will there be an open bar
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There will be an open but capped bar available including wine, bear and signature cocktails. No neat drinks will be served.
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Is there transport to and from the hotel to the ceremony?
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We will have transportation provided from Inn by the Sea to the wedding venue. An uber group code will be provided. There will be no transportation provided from the wedding back to the hotel or other locations. Street parking is very limited by the venue so we suggest being dropped off if at all possible!