FAQs

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

Answer

Yes. We have two (2) pick up and drop off locations for transportation - PLEASE RSVP for your pick-up and drop-off location under the "RSVP" tab on this website. There will be two (2) time options to leave the reception and be dropped off at the designated hotels - 10pm and 11:30pm. Choose the time you wish to leave the reception, by reserving 10 pm or 11:30 pm on the "RSVP" tab to ensure all guests return accordingly. Deadline for shuttle availability is September 19th, 2019. To reserve a spot, please click on RSVP tab to reserve your position on the Ceremony and Departure shuttle.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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If you choose to drive to both the ceremony and reception, there is plenty of parking at St Francis De Sales (Ceremony) and Oak Hunt Meadows (Reception). Please note that parking at the reception will in the a field, so depending on the weather before and/or during the wedding, be prepared for a short walk in the grass to the reception.

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Is there a dress code?

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Semi-formal. Women should wear cocktail dresses or evening gowns. Men should wear a suit and tie.

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Are kids welcome?

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YES! We love children. Aside from our nieces and nephews, we are welcoming children. BONUS - we will be having two (2) babysitters, who will be watching the children during the reception and entertaining them. This does not mean we do not want the children to be a part of the reception, it is up to the parents, if they would like to have their children with them for the whole time or playing with the sitters and other kids. Tips are encouraged for the sitters, but we will be covering the cost for the time with the sitters. An agenda of the children's itinerary will be provided after the ceremony before the reception for all parents. It is up to the parents, if you would like your child/children participate in the kids area. To assist the Bride and Groom, please let us know if you are NOT requiring your child/children to be with the other children during the reception. Email or text us at whitdup@gmail.com/ 703-864-4617 or eric.n.anderson@gmail.com/ 412-760-9760

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Are you registered? Where?

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Yes, we are. ALTHOUGH, we already have a majority of our household items, so any item or experience you can contribute to our wedding we are grateful. Please check the "Registry" tab on this website.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Yes. Please check the "Travel" tab to find hotel room blocks and other accommodations.

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Can I bring a date?

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Please be sure to check the "RSVP" tab and insert your name to see if you are able to bring a date. We are trying to make our wedding an intimate event and welcomed those that are in serious relationships.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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At the reception, we will have gluten and vegetarian options, as we will be offering a buffet option. If you do have a serious food allergy and have concerns for the food you might be eating, please notify our planner, Shelia, when you arrive or by emailing us at either whitdup@gmail.com or eric.n.anderson@gmail.com.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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We will be starting the ceremony promptly at 2pm ET. We ask that all guests are at the ceremony site by 1:40pm ET at the latest to ensure everyone is seated by 1:50pm ET, so we do not miss a step for the wedding festivities.

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Are we still able to participate in the ceremony, if we are not Christian or Catholic?

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Yes. We do ask that if you are not confirmed Catholic to abstain from taking Holy Communion. Although, you can approach the priest during Communion for a blessing by crossing both arms across your shoulders.