Attire & FAQs

Question

What is the dress code?

Answer

Black Tie Optional For Men: Tuxedos are welcome; dark suits and ties are required. For Women: Floor-length gowns or formal tea-length dresses are required. Guests are encouraged to wear shades of black, brown, purple, green, or blue. To create a timeless and elegant atmosphere, we kindly request that guests avoid overly bright hues and, of course, any shade of white. For inspiration, check out our Pinterest board - https://pin.it/6uz3zdxyF

Question

What time should we arrive?

Answer

Please arrive at Bluestem Manor no later than 4:15 PM so we can begin the ceremony promptly at 4:30 PM.

Question

Can I bring a plus one?

Answer

When you RSVP, it will indicate if you were given a plus-one. If you're unsure or if no plus-one is indicated but you would like to bring a guest, please feel free to reach out to Eric & Erin directly with the understanding that we may not be able to accommodate.

Question

Are children invited?

Answer

We kindly ask that our wedding be an adults-only celebration, with the exception of children in the wedding party. We understand that arranging childcare can be challenging, and we deeply appreciate your understanding.

Question

Will there be food & drinks?

Answer

Absolutely! Enjoy a cocktail hour, full dinner, late night bites, and open bar.

Question

What should I do if I have a dietary restriction?

Answer

Please let us know when you RSVP, and we’ll do our best to accommodate you.