FAQs

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What COVID precautions are being followed?

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We strongly encourage all guests to be fully vaccinated and boosted before the reception. As we have a number of high risk people attending the reception, we are asking all guests to take a rapid test (which is an at home test that gives a result in 15 minutes) the day of the reception. Guests will be required to show a photo of their negative rapid test result at check in. We will have a few extra tests at the door. If you recently recovered from covid, we will also accept a positive test between April 1-May 15. Guests are welcome to wear masks, but masks will not be required. Hand sanitizer will be available. If you have any questions or concerns, please let us know, this is all brave new territory for us. If there is any major change or update to our Covid policy, we will let guests know by email.

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When should I RSVP for May 28, 2022?

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Please RSVP by April 15, 2022. You will be able to RSVP by clicking on the RSVP tab.

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What if there is a last minute change to my RSVP for the May 28, 2022 reception?

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Although we hope no one has any last minute unfortunate surprises, we understand that life happens. If you discover the week of or even the day of that you are suddenly unable (or able!) to attend to wedding, please let us know! This will help us with table assignments and having the appropriate amount for food and drink. Please go to the RSVP page, type in your name, and update your RSVP. If you change your RSVP within 2 weeks of the wedding, please also contact mother-of-the bride, Angie Sellers at 816-926-0257, or Carolyn Martin Ayers, the day-of coordinator at 319-230-3197.

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What time should I arrive at the May 28, 2022 reception?

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Doors (and the bar!) will open at 4:15 pm. Please check in by 4:45pm so you can get a drink and find your seat. The renewal ceremony will begin at 5:00pm.

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Are the renewal ceremony and reception on May 28, 2022 at the same location?

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Yes! The renewal ceremony and the reception are both located at the Bauer in the Crossroads. The event space is on the third floor of the building. If you need an elevator, let the greeter at the front door know and they will help you to the elevator at the back of the building.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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The Home2Suites, Indigo Hotel, and Crossroads Hotel are hotel options within 5-7 minutes walking. We do not have any hotel blocks. Please see the “Travel” page for more information. Hotels in Crown Center and Downtown are within 5-7 minutes by car of The Bauer and on the streetcar line.

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Is there transportation to and from The Bauer?

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If you book at the Home2 Suites, the hotel provides a shuttle for guests. The shuttle stops running around 10:30 pm. If you miss it, the walk from the venue is only seven minutes. The streetcar on Main Street is free and only a few minutes walk from the venue and it can connect you with hotels downtown and in Crown Center. Ride-sharing apps are also a great option!

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Is there parking for The Bauer?

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Yes! In addition to free street parking, the venue has two small free lots. See the image at the top of the page or copy and paste this link for a higher resolution of the map: https://thebrideandthebauer.us14.list-manage.com/track/click?u=8a78b13f04e6a903e96c59949&id=24f9a585e8&e=162e1343ef The closest lot is at the north corner of 18th and Baltimore. There is another lot slightly further south on Baltimore next to Baramee Thai. If you decide to leave your car in a lot overnight please be advised that cars need to be moved by 10am the next morning. We will provide a map of available lots by email prior to the reception. We strongly encourage using public transit or ride sharing apps so you can kick back and enjoy the night safely.

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Are you registered? Where?

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We are currently updating our registry. We will make the tab visible starting March 15, 2022. We are registering primarily for our long delayed honeymoon. We have also registered with Amazon, Bed Bath & Beyond, and Food52. We also have a few one off items listed from other stores. If you choose to have your gift delivered before the reception (preferred method), was please send to Emily’s parents’ address. The address should be automatically set for the registries—if not use the return address on your invitation. If you have any questions about the registry, please let us know.

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Can I bring a date?

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If your invitation lists your significant other’s name or says “and Guest,” then yes. Otherwise, we would prefer to share our special day with just you. If you have a significant other that was not invited, please reach out to Emily or Kyle. Depending on capacity, we may be able to accommodate a few extra people.

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Are kids welcome?

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Children invited to the wedding will be listed on your digital RSVP card on the wedding website. We don’t want anyone to not come to the wedding due to childcare concerns, so please let us know if you can’t leave your little one at home. For the brief duration of the renewal ceremony, we ask that any fussy babies be attended to downstairs. If you have any questions or concerns, let us know!

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes, please let us when you RSVP.

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I don’t drink alcohol, will there be a non-alcoholic options available?

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Yes! There will be soda at the bar and depending on interest, a mocktail. Please let us know when you RSVP if you are a non-drinker and if you have a favorite non-alcoholic drink and we will see what we can do!