FAQ

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So... who's taking whose last name?

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Nobody! We didn't feel the need to carry on this particular marriage tradition, so you can keep on calling us the same names you always have.

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What's the dress code?

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Cocktail attire. Look snazzy, feel confident, wear something you'll be ready to party in. It will likely be in the 80s, so don't wear too many layers! For the ladies: the venue is grassy, so maybe skip on the stilettos.

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Will there be transportation to the wedding venue?

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Unfortunately we're unable to provide formal transportation. That said, plenty of people will be driving to/from the wedding and we may be able to help hook you up with a carpool.

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Should I bring a gift?

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Absolutely not. Your presence is gift enough to us both - especially since we're asking many of you to travel for the wedding. But if you really, really, really want to get us something, we've included a registry on the site.

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I'm vegeterian / gluten free, help!

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Don't worry, we'll feed you. When you RSVP just make sure to note any allergies/preferences so we can get the right amount of food.

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Why Abingdon?

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Abingdon has been a second home to Dax for nearly 10 years, and when we first started dating it was actually the first trip we took together. We've driven from NYC down to Abingdon who-knows-how-many times over the course of our relationship, and it's become someplace Paula treasures as well. It was always right up there with NYC when we started wedding planning. When we started digging into our options, it quickly became the obvious choice. We can't wait for you all to experience it too!

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Can I bring my pets to the wedding?

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Sadly no. If our cats can't come, neither can your cats/dogs/chinchillas/lobsters. But you can bring some pictures to show everyone after you've had a few drinks. Otherwise, leave 'em at your B&B.

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But my pet is *REALLY* cute.

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Still no.

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Fine. What about my kid?

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Kids are welcome! Just let us know when you RSVP.

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I can't get your RSVP thingy to work.

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Call or text one of us and we'll get you sorted out. ✌️