Thank you so much for the beautiful oak serving board! We can’t wait to use it during the many dinner parties you’ll be invited to this winter. Looking forward to celebrating with you at our wedding!

For a kitchen gift you received before your wedding

How did you know we were dreaming of those crystal champagne flutes?! They’re by far the most beautiful glasses in our home and we’ve never felt fancier. You’ll have to come over soon so we can toast to you! So excited to see you in June.

For drinkware you received before your wedding

We had a blast dancing the night away with you at our wedding. We also can’t thank you enough for the espresso maker. Our mornings have never been brighter! We can’t wait to see you in Austin next month… all caffeinated up!

For a coffee gift you received after your wedding

Where have you been hiding those killer dance moves? Thank you so much for rocking out at our wedding. And we absolutely love our new cast iron skillet and cookbook! We’re already cooking up a storm. Hope to see you soon in New York!

For cookware you received after your wedding

Thank you so much for the beer-brewing kit! We hope to be sipping backyard IPAs with you in no time. We missed you at the wedding, but know you were there in spirit. Can’t wait to see you when we’re back from our honeymoon!

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Dress Code: Formal / Black-Tie Optional

The overall wedding aesthetic is elegant, romantic, and elevated — think rich florals, polished silhouettes, and a sophisticated atmosphere. Guests should come dressed in formal attire: long gowns or elevated cocktail dresses for women, and tuxedos or dark suits for men.

For the Ladies
Color Guidance: Shades of Pink - Soft Rosy & Blush Tones

We kindly suggest wearing dresses within a rosy pink palette — including blush, dusty rose, mauve, soft pink, or deeper rose tones. Satin, silk, or flowy fabrics complement the romantic vibe beautifully. Floral dresses are welcome.

For more inspiration, see examples above.

For the Gentlemen
Color Guidance: Black Formalwear

- Black tuxedos or black suits
- Dress shoes (including more casual, formal-appropriate styles) are acceptable.
- No denim, please.

Thank you so much for your cooperation—we can’t wait to celebrate with you!

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