FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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To help us with our planning, please RSVP to the event(s) as soon as possible. We ask that everyone RSVP by April 15th, 2026, the latest. If we do not receive your RSVP by the date provided, it will automatically be marked as "no" and we will not be able to make any exceptions.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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Guests should arrive at 5:00 PM. This allows enough time to work with valet and enjoy welcome refreshments, followed by seating for the ceremony. Please note that once the ceremony begins, late entry will not be permitted.
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Can I bring a date?
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Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you have a plus one, it will be attached to your name when you RSVP electronically! If you were not allotted a plus one, please respect our wishes of keeping the wedding small and intimate. Thank you for understanding!
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Are kids welcome?
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While we love your little ones, this is strictly an adults-only occasion.
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Is there a dress code?
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Yes, dress to impress! Our wedding attire is formal. Ladies are encouraged to wear floor-length gowns in elegant shades of pink, with pink floral dresses also welcome. Gentlemen should opt for formal black tuxedos or suits, with black-tie attire optional. For additional details and style guidance, please visit our "What to Wear" page.
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Are there colors that I should avoid?
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We kindly invite our guests to complement our wedding's elegant color palette by wearing pink and romantic floral hues. As a traditional courtesy, we ask that you avoid wearing white, ivory, or cream, as these colors are traditionally reserved for the bride. For more guidance on wedding guest attire, please visit our "What to Wear" page.
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Where are the ceremony and reception taking place?
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Our ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception will all be beautifully hosted at the Refinery venue within Perona Farms. The entire celebration will unfold in one location, allowing for seamless transitions and eliminating any travel between venues. Weather permitting, both the ceremony and cocktail hour may include outdoor elements.
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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Parking will be onsite! There will be parking attendants to direct cars where to park and valet services.
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Will there be an open bar?
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Yes, the drinks are on us and the hangover is on you! If you plan on drinking, please make sure to arrange a safe ride home. Your safety means the world to us. We're also open to organizing transportation to and from the hotel where we've reserved room blocks, if there's enough interest. If that’s something you'd like to take advantage of, please let us know!
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Is smoking allowed at the venue?
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The venue is a smoke-free property. Smoking is not permitted anywhere on the premises.