FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by June 1st.

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What's the dress code?

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Cocktail Attire - As we will celebrate in the North Carolina summer heat, we ask guests to wear cocktail attire that’s both stylish and comfortable to their tastes. For ladies, a cocktail length or midi/maxi dress, or jumpsuit, works great. For gentlemen, a dress shirt with dress slacks paired with a tie or bowtie is perfect. Jackets are optional. The bridal party will be wearing dusty blue and terracotta hues.

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What time should I arrive at the venue?

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Please arrive no later than 4:20. The ceremony will start at 4:30 (Andie will be ready on time).

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Are children invited?

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While we do love your adorable kids, we're having an adults-only celebration to ensure a relaxed and enjoyable experience for all guests.

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Can I bring a "plus one"?

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If your invitation says "and guest", then sure thing! If not, due to limited seating, we kindly ask that it just be you.

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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We will provide a shuttle for the evening. The first shuttle will pick up guests at the hotel (Courtyard Raleigh Cary Crossroads) at 3:20, dropping off at The Upchurch around 3:45. The second will leave from the hotel around 3:55, arriving at our venue around 4:20. The shuttle will also drop guests back off at the hotel at the end of the evening (first trip leaving the venue around 9:50, the second leaving around 10:30).

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Is there parking for the ceremony/reception?

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Yes! The Upchurch has a gravel parking lot right beside the venue. Overnight parking is permitted. Vehicles must be picked up by 10 AM.