Questions

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When Do I Need To RSVP By?

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Please RSVP by March 1st, 2025. This is a deadline that we hope gives you ample time to find flights, babysitters, outfits, hotels, and car rides! Our venue will be requesting final information that needs to be accurate, so keeping this deadline is very important.

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What should I Not Wear?

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Women DON’T: Wear jeans, t-shirt, shorts, really short skirts or dresses, sandals/ flip flops. Avoid the color white/cream/ or anything close to that. Men DON’T: Wear jeans, kakis, shorts, t-shirt, sandals/ flip flops.

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Can I Bring My Baby/ Child/ Children?

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After careful consideration, we've decided to make our wedding an Adults-Only event. We hope you understand as we wanted to create a peaceful and intimate atmosphere for all our guests. Think of it as an opportunity for a date night to celebrate Amanda and Gordon!

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Can I Bring A Guest/ Plus- One?

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We are so honored that you want to celebrate with us on our special day. All invited wedding guests will be listed on the invitations, as well as the RSVP list included on this website. You can search for your party on the RSVP page. For our guests in a relationship: In order to keep things intimate and personal, guests are able to bring their long-term, serious partner. These individuals will be listed on the invitation and on the RSVP page. We appreciate your understanding and can’t wait to share this unforgettable day with you!

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Will There Be Alcohol?

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This will be a dry wedding, so there will not be any alcohol. Instead there will be soda, water, tea, lemonade, and coffee. We would also like to ask that no substances/vape pens or cigarettes be brought onto the premises. Please respect the Bride and Grooms wishes and thank you for understanding!

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Can I Take Photos?

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During the ceremony the Bride and Groom ask for all phones to be silent or off and in your purses/pockets. Please refrain from taking pictures during the ceremony. We want to share our union with you in the moment. At our reception we welcome all photos and videos! Although we will have an amazing photographer and videographer there, we want to see our wedding from your perspective too. There will be a QR code available for guests to scan and upload all of their pictures or videos so we can look back at all of the memories made.

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The Couple's Name.

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The Bride and Groom kindly request that they be addressed by their given names. While many may have fondly used nicknames over the years, they would appreciate being referred to as Gordon (or Gordon Jr.) and Amanda (or Panda, which she loves). Thank you for honoring this special request.