FAQs

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May I bring a plus one?

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Due to the intimacy of our wedding, as well as our budget and venue size, we are unable to accommodate additional guests or swap-in substitutes. Only NAMED GUESTS are invited, as listed on the Save the Date, Invite & RSVP card you will receive. You will receive your Invites & RSVP cards roughly 6-12 weeks before the wedding date. Thank you so much for understanding!

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What is the venue address?

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In order to avoid guests showing up without having RSVP'd, you will receive the address of our venue AFTER you have RSVP'd. For travel planning purposes, our wedding will be held in Escondido, CA 92026

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What is your dress code?

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Celebrate the union of our kingdoms with renaissance faire attire in fall colors (please DO NOT wear Olive Green or Blue unless requested by the bride or groom)! Elven dresses, corsets, armor, fairies, rogues, mages, even jesters, etc. are welcome! Just please make sure it's not too flashy so that the bride and groom have the center of attention, and out of respect for our venue, please NO real weapons. You are also welcome to come as you are in dressy-casual or semi-formal attire if you are not interested in donning a ren-faire outfit. We want you to be comfortable! Just as long as we get to spend time with you 🤍 When in doubt, feel free to message the bride or groom on what you're thinking! Refer to Our Pinterest Board for inspo: https://pin.it/2DOt2E91G

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Are you registered? Where?

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Though your love and support is more than enough for us, your contribution to our future and/or our honeymoon is much appreciated! Please note that our registry is strictly CASH FUND ONLY. You may access our registry on the Registry Tab of this website.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Our venue has free parking on the premises!

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Is the venue ADA compliant?

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Yes, the entire facility that we will be having the ceremony and reception at are ADA compliant!

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Are you planning on having children? If so, when?

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Because we are expecting this question to come up during upcoming holidays and family gatherings, we decided to address it here first! The short answer is YES! We would love to be parents someday! The long answer is, we are in no rush. We love that you are as excited as we are for when it does happen, but we graciously request that there be no pressure on us, whether that be in the form of jokes or actual conversations. In the meantime, while we all wait, we ask that there be no requests for updates on this matter, and that we continue to create a world that is loving and safe for ALL children, regardless of race, ethnicity, social standing, or sexuality. We want to bring a child into a family and world that stands for social justice, kindness, equality, respect, healthy communication, firm boundaries, and love, and that starts with all of us. When the time comes, you will hear it directly from us, and we will do our best to make it as special as the love we have for you 🤍 ~RESOURCES THAT WILL HELP CREATE A BETTER WORLD FOR OUR FUTURE CHILDREN~ Gun Violence Prevention: https://www.sandyhookpromise.org/ LGBTQIA+ Advocacy & Support & Suicide Prevention: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/resources/ Fighting for Paid Leave for All: https://paidleaveforall.org/news-resources/ ~RESOURCE ON THE SENSITIVITY OF ASKING SOMEONE ABOUT PREGNANCY~ https://tinyurl.com/5e8auby6