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Update: In light of COVID-19, we wanted to let you know our wedding is going forward as planned. If you’re no longer able to attend, we completely understand. You can update your RSVP anytime on our site, and we wish you health and safety during this difficult time.
Update: In light of COVID-19, we wanted to let you know our wedding is going forward as planned. If you’re no longer able to attend, we completely understand. You can update your RSVP anytime on our site, and we wish you health and safety during this difficult time.
October 9, 2021
Castleton-On-Hudson, New York
#abrandnewbanks

Vanessa & Alexander

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The Wedding Website of Vanessa Brand and Alexander Banks
Below are answers to some common questions so everyone knows what’s going on!
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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

We want to have a final guest count by June 15th, 2021. So please plan accordingly so we receive your RSVP prior to that date!

Question

Can I bring a date?

Answer

Yes, if you are in a committed relationship. If you are not in a committed relationship, plus ones must be approved ahead of time. No “flings” or “random” individuals. We must be aware of any plus ones when RSVP’s come in so we have an accurate guest count!

Question

Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

Answer

If you are a guest at the Comfort Inn hotel we booked out, there is a free shuttle between the hotel and the wedding venue. The other two hotels DO NOT have free shuttles, but Uber and Lyft operate in the area at an additional cost ($20-30 a trip) or you may transport yourselves.

Question

Do I have to purchase something from the gift registry? Is there an option to just give money?

Answer

We are grateful for any gift we receive, big or small! The registries are great for when you need an idea as to what we desire. We do have a cash fund available for an additional option if a traditional gift is not preferred! Please do not feel obligated to purchase something strictly from the registries - personal gifts are always welcome and appreciated!

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Are kids welcome?

Answer

We are keeping the age limit at 13 or older. No children, please!

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