FAQs

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What time should I arrive for the ceremony?

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Please plan to arrive at 5:15 to take your seats!

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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You may and you should! Please include any dietary restrictions when you RSVP and we will communicate with the chef to accommodate any needs.

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Can I just text or call Abbi or CJ to RSVP?

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Alas, no. We are asking all of our guests to kindly RSVP here, on our website. Please go to the RSVP tab to let us know who of your party will officially be attending, and what dietary restrictions you may have. You can have your responses emailed to you, and you can go back and update your specific RSVP later if needed!

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Please refer to your invitation for the number of seats reserved for your party.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes! There is free parking in the main lot at Wagner Vineyards.

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Is there a dress code?

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"Dress code" is a strong word, but if you asked us for suggestions, we'd say: Ladies - Cocktail dresses, little black dresses, dressy jumpsuits, that gown in the back of your closet, etc. Gentlemen - Dress shirts & slacks (a jacket if you like), suits, or that tux you never get to wear! Non-binary folk - Any of the above that makes you feel most like you. Everyone - The only color we ask guests to steer clear of are white/ivory/cream dresses. Our wedding party color is deep/navy blue, with accents of lighter blues & ivory - but please feel free to wear to wear any blue you wish! All that said, please don't stress too mentally or financially on attire. Use your best judgement! Note: The ceremony will be outdoors (pending inclement precipitation or very low temperatures), and the reception will be indoors in a climate controlled environment. Please plan accordingly!

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What's an unplugged ceremony?

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We are requesting that all guests to silence and put away cell phones, cameras, and any other devices during the processional, ceremony, and recessional. You're invited because you are special to us - and your full presence would mean the world to us on our special day! Wanting pictures to remember the moment? Good news! We have hired a great photography team, and we trust them to take fantastic pictures. We will happily provide digital copies of those photos to our guests after the wedding - so you're covered!

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Will the reception be "unplugged" as well?

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On the whole, no. We will have a QR code to scan where you can add to a google photos album - all the fun selfies you take or silly videos of friends and family dancing! Kindly use your good judgement during toasts & special dances.