FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please let us know if you are coming by Aug 15, 2026.

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Is there a rehearsal dinner?

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No.

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What should I wear?

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Our dress code is cocktail attire, with room to lean formal if you’d like. For example, cocktail dresses, skirts, dress shirts, tailored trousers, jumpsuits, or longer dresses, and jacketed suits (with or without a tie or bow tie). We’re simply excited to celebrate with everyone looking and feeling their best. The ceremony will be outdoors in late October. Over the past five years, temperatures have typically ranged from daytime highs in the mid-to-upper 60s°F down to nighttime lows in the mid-40s°F.

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What airport should I fly into?

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Newark Liberty International Airport (EWR) is the closest major airport, but any of the major NYC airports would suffice.

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How do I get from EWR to New Brunswick?

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Cab, Uber or Taxi for USD$50+ Take the train (~USD$20 per person) - Details in the Travel page Driving - From Newark: Follow signs to exit the airport toward I-95 / New Jersey Turnpike South. Proceed through the toll booth and take the ticket (you will pay when exiting the turnpike). Merge onto the New Jersey Turnpike South. Continue south for about 20–25 miles. Take Exit 9 – New Brunswick / Rutgers University. Pay at a "cash only" booth (expect around $5, assuming you are coming from Newark Airport). After the tolls, follow signs for Route 18 North / New Brunswick. Merge onto Route 18 North. Follow signs for Downtown New Brunswick / George Street / Rutgers. Exit toward downtown New Brunswick and continue toward George Street.

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Where should I stay?

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While there are many hotels and other lodging in the wider area, the two hotels that are a very short walk from the reception venue are listed on the Travel page.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes!

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Can I bring a plus 1?

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Because the ceremony space is quite limited, only those guests who were offered plus ones by the couple at the time of invite are permitted at the ceremony. At the reception, we have slightly more ability to accomodate, so please reach out and let us know if you have someone special you'd like to bring and did not already get approval for a plus one.

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Are the locations accessible?

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The ceremony will take place very close to parking lot A at the Colonial Park Arboretum, which has a well-maintained grassy area where the seating will be located and should be traversable for those with limited mobility. The reception venue has an upstairs section that is not wheelchair-accessible, but also has a downstairs area that the festivities will extend to, and an accessible washroom.

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What should I do between the ceremony and reception?

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We intentionally chose to leave a longer break between the ceremony and reception so the day could feel relaxed, unhurried, and genuinely enjoyable for everyone — including us! After the ceremony, we left time for guests to visit, take photos at the park, and let everyone enjoy the beautiful surrounding areas instead of rushing immediately into the next event. The break also gives guests a chance to return to their hotels, freshen up after an outdoor ceremony, make any wardrobe adjustments, and recharge before the evening celebration. Perhaps most importantly, it also allows us a little time to bring Hoon home, take a breath, and enjoy our first private moments together as a married couple before celebrating with all of you again that evening. For those looking to explore during the break, both Somerset and New Brunswick have wonderful restaurants, cafés, bookstores, breweries, parks, and Rutgers campus areas nearby to enjoy.

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What is the parking situation?

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Both hotels provide day rates for self-parking a vehicle and have a valet option. There is also street parking throughout New Brunswick that is typically available nearby if you're willing to walk a short distance. The ceremony takes place near parking lot A in the Colonial Park Arboretum. if that parking lot is full, Parking lot F near the perennial gardens is a short walk away.

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Can you make dietary accomodations?

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We plan to provide gluten-free and vegetarian options, and the entire evening will be shellfish-free to avoid the bride going into anaphylaxis.

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Do you have a gift registry?

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Not a traditional one. See the registry page for more details.

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What happens if there is rain or other nasty weather?

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In the case of inclement weather, the ceremony will take place at the same location as a the reception.

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Why don't you have a traditional gift registry?

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We have a few reasons for not having a traditional registry. First, after living together for several years, we’re fortunate to already have most of the household items we need and have little desire to upgrade things simply for the sake of it. More importantly, we wanted this celebration to reflect the things that matter most to us: meaningful experiences, time with loved ones, and contributing to improving the world around us in ways that resonate deeply with us. Thus, instead of traditional gifts, we’ve chosen to offer options to contribute to our honeymoon and two charitable causes that are very close to our hearts: cancer research and animal rescue services.