Maid of Honor
Hi all! I’m Lea, Ashlee’s maid of honor. Words cannot express how excited I am to see Ashlee as a bride and am honored to be the one standing by her side on such an important day. Ashlee and I met our senior year of high school, at which time I would have never imagined our relationship growing into what it is today. Over a decade of life changes, including different zip codes, college (more than a few), friends/relationships, jobs… you name it, not a week has passed that we haven’t been in contact with one another, and I think that says a lot. All we have ever needed was a couch and a cup of coffee. Fortunately for us, but less fortunate for Jay, there will always be a couch and a cup of coffee. All jokes aside, I’m glad that Jay will be the one waiting for Ashlee at the end of the aisle.
Best Man
My name is Phil Vacchio and I’ve had the pleasure of being friends with Jay for just over 10 years. It’s been quite the ride over the last decade, and I could definitely say that we’ve both been there for each other throughout all of the highs, and all of the lows that life has thrown at us. From our wild fraternity days, to our post undergrad nights out, and to both of us finally realizing that we just weren’t as young and reckless as we once were – he’s been by my side through it all. I’m proud to call Jay one of my best friends, and I’m honored to stand beside him to kick off this next chapter of his life with Ashlee. Also - If you’re looking for me on September 25th, I’ll most likely be on the dancefloor.
Bridesmaid
Hi, Hey, Hello. I’m Kate, one of Ashlee’s besties or the sister I never had but always wanted if you ask Bill & Kath (my parents). From wreaking havoc at Simon’s for years when we were tweens to taking on the big city, or at least trying to, there’s no one else I would have rather done it with. Ashlee has the biggest heart as we all know, the girl who raps every word to A Milli by Lil Wayne (which still amazes me) while picking up stranded dogs on the highway drinking an iced coffee. To the fearless, loving, free spirited hell of a friend — I LOVE YOU! I could go on and on with stories about the adventures of Ash & Kate but what I’m most looking forward to is the new chapter of Ash & Jay. I love you both so much and I can’t wait to celebrate the future of two amazing people!
Groomsman
I am Jason’s older brother and when he was born I was 9 years old and I was the happiest big brother in the world, since he was little. Jason was nice and play a lot of games. We used to dress a like and our favorite toys were the Power Rangers. When Jason grew up we played video games and he was so good with Sega Genesis and I used the play with him Sonic The Hedgehog 2. He had his own since he was three and so he learned and won all the time. Now that he is a Lawyer he is like my big brother but I am better in Video games.
Bridesmaid
Hi everyone! My name is Megan, and I am so excited to be a part of Ashlee’s bridal party. I have known Ash for almost five years, after meeting through mutual friends and spending a stint together as roommates. We’ve since then shared countless adventures, late night movie marathons, and road trips with the most diverse playlist you’ve ever heard. Ash is one of the most amazing people I know, and I couldn’t be happier to be standing up next to her on the big day!
Groomsman
Going way back to middle school, I've been honored to witness all the phases Jason has gone through; my personal favorite... Teenage Guido. Yes, he used to spike his hair and wear a Nike headband. What I would consider a hidden gem that most don't know, beatmatching was his forte. Going by the name DJ Gr@phic, Jason mastered the art of turn tabling. Fast forward close to a decade and Jason has become a successful lawyer. Impressive, isn't it? I can go on and on but what stands out about Jason is his determination, attention to detail, and the care he has for his friends & family. I would also like to comment on how great Ashlee is, which was evident during Jason's preparation for the Bar Exam and throughout law school. Ashlee was able to deal with his grumpy attitude the entire time!
Bridesmaid
I’m Ashlee’s little sister! Although she has a few years on me that’s never affected our friendship and I’m so glad I have a boss lady like her to look up too. She’s been a shoulder to cry on and someone to laugh with my entire life. She’s truly met her match with Jason and I’m so excited to see them grow and start a life together!
Bridesmaid
My name is Ashley Larimore, and I am counting down the days until we celebrate Ashlee and Jay's marriage. Ashlee and I have been friends since middle school. Our life long friendship was built on the essentials- we bonded over giving each other nicknames that made no sense (Leif? Really?), our great taste in music (Alexa, play Dixie Chicks' greatest hits), and our amateur softball skills. 18 years later and I’d still drop everything to jump in the car with Ashlee to explore upstate back roads while scream-singing Brand New and Taking Back Sunday songs. I love Ashlee’s thirst for adventure (and Lakewood wine) and there is no better match for her spontaneity than Jay. I couldn’t be more excited to stand by Ashlee’s side on her special day.
Groomsman
I’m Nick Miocic Jason’s older cousin. Jason is a fun loving and caring young man. I’m so proud of him, a true go getter. When Jason has a goal, watch out! He has impeccable core values, honesty, dedication and family who he puts first. Ashlee you are a very lucky gal and Jason you lucky are as well. Enjoy your journey together. Love Nick, P.S: We’ll commiserate about the Jets in September lol.
Bridesmaid
“For those of you who don’t know me”.... my name is Chelsea Emery. I met Ashlee a decade ago while attending our local college and knew immediately me and that crazy girl were going to be lifelong friends. From the countless sleepovers with her, myself and her small zoo of “Ashlee-rescued” animals, to her having my back during a one-sided bar fight I wasn’t prepared for, decorating Christmas trees while listening to Nirvana, to her getting us lost on late night drives no less than 7 times, I can honestly say, Ashlee is one of my wildest and most fun friends. We’ve shared an insanely fun 10 years together and I can’t wait to watch her take this next step in life as MRS. ZIVKOVIC!!!
Groomsman
Jay and I met in college, and right away I knew I liked him. Jay is an endlessly reliable friend and has always been there for me when I have needed him. I still - to this day -remember him and I in the city on the Friday he decided to go to quit his job and go to law school..we were eating oysters off the half shell and drinking Sambuca on Arthur Ave, and ended up at Cartier looking at watches we certainly couldn’t afford. No question we both aligned with our tastes and knew what kind life we wanted to live, and that day we vowed to never be afraid to go get it. It’s hard to come by friends and confidants like him in life, and I look forward to what awaits him and his beautiful bride Ashlee in their future. I look forward to drinking Sambuca with our Cartiers on soon brother!
Bridesmaid
Although Ashlee and I grew up in the same town upstate, we didn’t get close to each other until we both found ourselves living in NYC at the same time. I needed a new place and she happened to be looking for a roommate. Little did I know the apartment would end up housing three of us girls, Ashlee’s then-boyfriend Jason and two dogs, Miles and Loki. Even though there were six of us crammed into a small space, the closeness and sense of family we developed truly made me feel at home in NYC for the first time. Getting to know people that closely you learn fun things about them. For example, Ashlee can live on nothing but Kraft Mac and Cheese and Jason will cry at 90% of movies. I’m truly blessed for getting to know both of them so well and for the bond we created.
Groomsman
I'm Trevor Storm, although growing up in a small town with Ashlee as an older sister I was mostly greeted with "OMG are you Ashlee's brother?! I love your sister!" when meeting new people. For the past few years, I've been living overseas and unfortunately haven't gotten much time to spend with Jay and Ashlee as a couple. To this day, I still have no idea how he handles my sister daily. What I do know is that I've never seen her happier, and that is all because of Jay and the connection these two share. I'm looking forward to gaining another brother and getting free legal advice.
Bridesmaid
I could lead with my name, but, let’s be honest here, Jason’s little sister is more identifiable. My name is Nicole Zivkovic and I’ve had the pleasure to exist for 21 years. That number would be 22, but when I was 5 Jay successfully convinced me I didn’t exist when we couldn’t find my passport. I ran around crying because he was “the only person who could see me.” To this day, he remains just as capable of fooling me as I am gullible enough to believe it. It feels like just yesterday that Jay and I were growing up together. Only now he has found his soul mate and I...have someone to help me mess with him. Make no mistake—Ash wears the pants—and I’m so excited to finally have an older sister on my side.
Groomsman
I’m Garrett Storm. I’ve only known Jay for a couple of years now, but from the day I met him I knew he’d make a wonderful husband for my sister and do right by her. Their (distinct) personalities compliment eachother perfectly and they’ve been a world of fun to be around since day one. Honored to be a part of this and I’m super excited to see what the years have in store for us. Welcome to the family Jay!
Bridesmaid
Not everyone can say they met one of their best friends by sliding into their DMs on the towns social media group - but I can! My name is Jessica, and when my fiancé and I moved to Forest Hills last year we were excited to meet new people, but, then, COVID. When Ashlee commented on my post (in less then 10 mins!) looking for food and bar recommendations, I knew we’d get along. Little did I know, after meeting a week later, that we’d be the ‘same person’ who have already laughed together, cried together and traveled together. I’m so grateful we found each other and for the friendship that we created, but I’m even happier that she found the most supportive, selfless and loving husband to do life with. Wishing you both a lifetime of love, happiness and the absolute best in your marriage!
Groomsman
I’m Andrew Pafundi. Funny enough, I moved into Parker Towers the same week Jason and Ashlee did, but had no idea. A few months later we met and immediately realized we had a ton in common. From the nights in, to (limited) bar hopping, we’ve had some of the best times imaginable, and told endless stories that ended in tears of laughter. Seriously, this last year could have been a movie. As rare as it may seem, I can honestly say I made lifelong friend end someone I can call a brother in record time. Couldn’t be happier for you and Ashlee and wish you endless happiness!