FAQs

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What time should I get to the Greenpoint Loft?

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The actual ceremony begins at 7:00 PM, but you're invited as of 6:00 PM for the "Badeken" (read more about it below). The Badeken will be the first time that we (Izzy and Alex) have seen each other in seven days, and it will be an incredibly poignant, celebratory experience. Plus, hors d'oeuvres and cocktails begin flowing at 6 PM... we just want you to get first dibs.

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What is the dress code?

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We're glad you asked. The dress code is officially "cocktail attire." - Gents, for reference, the Groom is wearing a suit (not a tux) and tie. - Ladies, a floor-length gown is not required, so a knee- or midi-length dress works.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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We sure do! Take a look at the "Travel and Hotels" tab if you haven't done so already.

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How do I get from my hotel to the ceremony?

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All hotel options are within an 8-minute car ride to The Greenpoint Loft, and there are plenty of Ubers and Lyfts available in Williamsburg. If you prefer the fresh air, all hotels are also within 15 minutes' walking distance of the venue. Please note there will not be a shuttle departing from the hotels.

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I've never been to a Jewish wedding. What should I expect? (PART I)

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Badeken: In the Torah, Jacob accidentally marries the wrong woman (Leah) instead of the one he intends to (Rachel) because her face was veiled. At the Badeken (Hebrew for “covering”), the groom personally covers his bride's face so as not to repeat the mistake. In covering the bride's outer beauty, he demonstrates commitment to love her inner beauty. Before the groom arrives, the bride - serving as queen for the evening - holds court with her "royal entourage." As guests enter, they greet her and feast on delicious bites and flowing drinks (but PACE YOURSELVES! This is the warm-up).

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I've never been to a Jewish wedding. What should I expect? (Part II)

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Chuppah: The bride and groom commit to one another under the “Chuppah” (marriage canopy), symbolizing the open home they will build together. The canopy in this ceremony is a Meyers family heirloom used in various weddings over the past 50 years. The ceremony will be officiated by Rabbis Yudi Steiner and YaYa Wilhelm who, together with their wives Rivky and Devora, have nurtured both Alex and Izzy’s spirituality.

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I've never been to a Jewish wedding. What should I expect? (PART III)

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Reception: Does this need an explanation?! After the Chuppah, the bride and groom head to a private room for their first moments alone together as a married couple. In the meantime, every guest should grab a plate, refill their drink, and get ready to dance the night away! In summary, this day is full of electrifying spiritual significance. Judaism believes that the bride and groom are uniquely suited to help each other reach their fullest potential on earth. Moreover, they fulfill the holy marriage equation of 1 + 1 = 3, where both partners retain their individuality yet also form a third, new relationship between the two of them and G-d.

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I'm staying the night in the City. What is the best way to get to the venue?

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The most reliable way is by Uber, Lyft, or a cab. (Since the festivities begin at 6 PM, plan accordingly to avoid rush hour traffic). Please contact us if you have other questions about transport from Manhattan.

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Is the venue indoors or outdoors?

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The venue is primarily indoors, although there is a small outdoor terrace.

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What is the COVID-19 Policy?

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Effective March 7, 2022, New York City no longer requires proof of vaccination at restaurants, entertainment venues, gyms and fitness facilities. Masks will not be provided at the ceremony, although guests are welcome to bring and wear their own.

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Are kids welcome?

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We love your kids - really, we do. But we want our wedding to be your night off!

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When should I RSVP by?

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As soon as possible, please :)