FAQs

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Why on a Sunday instead of Saturday?

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The Jewish Sabbath takes place from sundown Friday to sundown Saturday, and we refrain from using electricity on this day of rest. Rather than do everything very late on Saturday night, we do it on Sunday.

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Can I bring my own food/drink?

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As our wedding will take place at a Synagogue with strict kosher restrictions, we ask that people not bring any outside food or drink.

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What do I wear?

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Attire will be formal, but not black tie. Men should wear a suit and tie while women should wear a dress that covers shoulders, knees, and cleavage.

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Where can I smoke?

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No smoking of any kind will be allowed on the Synagogue's property, either inside or outside.

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What religious customs might I not be aware of if I'm not Jewish?

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1. At certain points, men and women will be separated. We will have people announce when this happens so no need to guess. 2. Men typically cover their heads with a skullcap called a "kippah" We will provide enough for every male, but don't feel you have to wear one if it makes you feel uncomfortable. 3. Those that are more observant do not shake hands or hug people of the opposite gender outside their own family. There are no restrictions on talking to anybody so please introduce yourself to someone new. 4. Judaism does not seek converts so please feel free to ask about Jewish customs and don't be afraid that someone might try to convert you.

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What other traditions will occur?

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"Jumping the Broom" demonstrates that all past problems have been swept away. During slave days, African-Americans were forbidden to marry and live together, so jumping the broom was a formal and public declaration of the couple's commitment. Today many African-Americans follow suit at the conclusion of their wedding ceremony. The broom is often handmade and is usually displayed in the couples home after the wedding.

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Am I allowed to take photos?

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Despite Yossi offering to photograph our wedding himself, we have hired a photographer so that everyone can be in the moment. We ask that people keep their phones put away during important times such as the ceremony so we can see your faces instead of the backs of your phones.