FAQs
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What should I wear? Is there a dress code?
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We're pretty flexible with the dress code. We would prefer semi-formal attire, but casual will also work. Please avoid jeans if possible.
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Does your wedding have a theme?
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Nope! You don't have to wear any specific patterns or colors. We just ask that you refrain from wearing anything neon, black (unless it has other colors), or, most obviously, white.
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What will the weather be like this time of year?
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Typical weather will be anywhere from 75F-85F during the day and 55F-65F at night. There is also a possibility of rain as well. Bring a light jacket and an umbrella just to be safe .
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When is the RSVP deadline? Do I need to mail it or can I do it online?
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We have a page on our wedding website to send in your RSVP. We ask that you send in your RSVP by June 8th, 2023. We will contact you one time on or before June 8th to get your RSVP if you have not sent it in by then. If we do not receive it on or before June 8th, and are unable to reach you, you will be marked down as RSVP-ing "no." If you show up without RSVP-ing, we will not be serving you food. We are on a strict budget and will only be accommodating those whom RSVP'd "yes." No exceptions.
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Where are the ceremony and reception taking place?
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The ceremony and reception will take place in the same location, but the ceremony will be outdoors (weather permitting) and the reception will be indoors.
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How do I get to the venue?
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We have posted the address on our website and it is also on Google Maps. We suggest trying to find it the day before so that no one arrives late.
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What time should I arrive?
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We request that you arrive 30 minutes before the start of the ceremony to make sure everyone is on time. There will be an announcement to ensure everyone is seated before we begin. If you arrive after the ceremony starts, we ask that you wait inside or off to the side until the end of the ceremony. Please do not interrupt!
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What should we do when we arrive?
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Guests are encouraged to sign our guest book upon arrival. Once you have signed the guest book, please find where you will be sitting by finding your name under the table number on the seating chart. (See next FAQ about the seating chart.) After you have found your table, please feel free to grab a drink at the bar, a snack, play games, mingle inside or outside, etc. Someone will ask that guests start making their way outside for the ceremony 10-15 minutes before it begins so that everyone may find a seat.
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Will there be a seating chart?
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Yes. We have made up a seating chart and put guests next to people they may know or whose personalities match the best, in our opinions. There will be a written out chart to make it easy to find what table number you're at. Your name will be under the table number when you look. There will also be place cards at each table/seat for you to know exactly where to sit. We only ask that you use your specific seats for before the ceremony and during dinner. After dinner, feel free to sit or stand wherever you want, but we would LOVE it if everyone joined us on the dance floor!
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What happens after the ceremony?
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After the ceremony, the wedding party will be taking pictures for around an hour and a half. While the wedding party takes pictures, guests can start heading to the reception area for alcoholic and non-alcoholic beverages as well as fun party games for "cocktail hour."
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What should I do if I can't make it?
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Know that you will be missed! If you cannot make the wedding, please let us know as soon as possible by RSVP-ing "no," so we can plan accordingly. There are separate RSVP options for the ceremony and reception in case you are able to attend one and not the other.
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Are kids allowed?
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We would appreciate a low child attendance, but we understand if you are unable to find someone to watch your little one. We just ask that you keep your child from being disruptive during the ceremony as much as possible. We may have some toy bags to occupy your child during the ceremony to distract them. Any info on how to better do that would be appreciated. Most importantly - please let us know if you plan on bringing your child/children.
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Can I bring a date?
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We have a strict guest list to stay on budget. Our wedding is strictly RSVP only! We will only be able to accommodate those listed on your invitation. It will say whether or not you can bring a plus one!
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Will there be any special diet options?
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We have a specific style of food we want at the wedding. We will do our best to accommodate everyone, but we also need to stay on budget. We will ensure a fruit and veggie platter or two. We will do our best to figure out something for those who need special accommodations. Please let us know if you have any dietary restrictions or allergies as well! We want everyone to feel included and don't want anyone going hungry!
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Is there a drinking limit? Cash bar? Open bar?
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There is a bar in the venue that is fully stocked and has bartenders. Unfortunately there is no room in our budget for an open bar. We will, however, be providing a keg or two of beer. They do accept card payments, but there is an ATM next to the bar if you prefer to pay cash. We don't want to put any restrictions on anyone who decides to drink alcoholic beverages, but please do not go overboard. There may be children present and we want to be respectful to the venue. Anyone who seems overly intoxicated will need to have someone drive them to their home or hotel room for the rest of the evening. We don't want anyone getting hurt or sick from too much alcohol. You will need to provide a valid ID ensuring you are 21 or over as the bartenders WILL ID you.
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Do you have a hotel block for out of town guests? Where do you recommend I stay?
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Yes, we have blocked a hotel for our out of town guests. There are 25 rooms blocked and we need at least 10 of them to be filled in order for guests to receive the discounted rate. Guests will need to reserve their rooms by June 15th in order to receive the discount. For more details on the hotel, see the "Accommodations" tab.
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Where are you registered?
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We registered with Amazon. Cash contributions are welcome, but for those who prefer sending money online, we will also accept Venmo transactions. You can find our Venmo link and our Amazon registry link under the Registry tab on our website. We appreciate every single one of you!
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May I take a centerpiece/candle/flowers?
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Yes! In order to stay on budget, we, unfortunately, will not be doing party favors. However, we do understand that some of our friends and family may want a keep-sake, so yes, please take one when you leave.
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Can I take and post pictures of the wedding for social media?
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We will have an unplugged ceremony. We want our friends and family to be 100% present when we get married, so we request that guests shut their phones off or silence them during the ceremony. You wouldn't take pictures, text or call at the movie theater, and we expect the same courtesy during the ceremony. We are paying a lot for a photographer and don't want our pictures to be ruined by everyone's phones. Our officiant will give a reminder before the ceremony begins. Absolutely no exceptions! We are going to be very strict about this. This includes family! After the ceremony, during the reception, we do encourage everyone to take as many pictures as possible! We will have a wedding hashtag (#OnceUponATillett) so we can see all of your wonderful photos if you post them on social media!