FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by 09/01/2023.

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What should I do if I can’t make it?

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You will be missed! If you can not make it to the wedding, please RSVP “no,” so we can plan accordingly.

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Is the statement on the RSVP serious?

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Yes. Yes it is. Unless you are actively dying don't RSVP yes and not show up. If you do, you will be paying for the wasted seat.

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Can I bring a date?

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If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.

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What time should I arrive?

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We recommend that you arrive at least 30 minutes before the start of the ceremony, to make sure everyone is on time and we can get the party started as scheduled! If you are one of the SUPER early birds, there will be a place for you to hang out inside the Hamilton Manor until the ceremony is ready to seat guests.

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Will the ceremony be taking place indoors or outdoors?

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The entire event will be taking place indoors, with the exception of having to walk from the ceremony barn into the reception building.

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What's the dress code?

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Formal attire, please. This is not optional...it is mandatory for everybody! Don't be that person and get asked to leave because you decided to come dressed like a bum....

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What will the weather be like this time of year?

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The temperature in NJ is typically cooler during October. We are mostly indoors so the weather shouldn't be much of a problem.

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Have you reserved hotel room blocks?

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Yes! See the accommodation tab on this website for more information.

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Will there be a shuttle to and/or from the hotel?

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We will have a shuttle to/from the hotel for anybody that has a room there and wants to take it. If you plan on drinking, please consider this an option even if its just for a night. We are supposed to be celebrating a happy event, not mourning because somebody didn't think things through enough.

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Where should guests park? Is parking free?

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Parking is located right in the lot and yes it is free. There is plenty of spaces so parking shouldn’t be a problem for anyone.

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Will food and drinks be served at the reception? What kind of food?

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Yes, food and drinks will be served. The entree that's being served is a duet plate of Beef and Chicken Milanese. As for all of our vegetarian friends, there is a vegetarian meal option. Please let me know in advance if that applies to you. For any kids under 12 that were invited, there is an option for chicken fingers and French Fries.

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Where are you registered?

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You can find our registry on the registry tab of our website! Since we don't need anything gift wise, we just ask that you make a monetary donation to our honeymoon fund if you wish to gift us something.

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Can I take pictures and/or post photos of your wedding on social media?

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Yes, please feel free to take any pictures, with the first kiss picture being the only exception (put your phone down please!). We do request that you be mindful of the photographers that will be there and stay out of their way. Use the wedding hashtag (#MeetTheMarkells2023) or tag us in the pictures so we can see all of the memories from the night.

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May I take a centerpiece/candle/flowers home as a souvenir?

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No. All of the decorations belong to the Hamilton Manor so you aren’t allowed to take them. We do have guest favors that you can take home instead.