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Ahead of the formal invitations - if you know you're coming PLEASE book your travel and accommodations ASAP. September is a very popular time of year in the Finger Lakes! We have two hotel blocks with discounted rates in the travel section. <3 Josh & Shelby
Ahead of the formal invitations - if you know you're coming PLEASE book your travel and accommodations ASAP. September is a very popular time of year in the Finger Lakes! We have two hotel blocks with discounted rates in the travel section. <3 Josh & Shelby

Josh & Shelby

FAQs

The Wedding Website of Shelby Sullivan and Joshua Wilder
Question

What is the dress code for the wedding?

Answer

Black Tie Optional Black tie optional invites guests to dress formally while offering flexibility. Tuxedos and gowns are welcome but not required. For men, a tuxedo or a dark suit with a dress shirt and tie is appropriate. For women, a formal gown, a cocktail dress below the knee, or an elegant evening ensemble are all great options.

Question

Can I bring a plus one?

Answer

If your invitation includes a plus-one, it will be indicated on your RSVP. Otherwise we are at max party capacity!

Question

Can I change my meal choice after I RSVP?

Answer

If your entrée plans change please just let us know before the RSVP date (08/10/26). After that date we won't be able to make changes with the kitchen.

Question

Can I take photos during the ceremony?

Answer

We kindly ask guests to be present and enjoy the moment. We hired a photographer for this exact reason and will share the photos with everyone! Once the ceremony wraps — cameras out!

Question

Is there transportation?

Answer

Yes! We’re providing round-trip shuttles on the wedding day between the two hotels where we have room blocks — 41 Lakefront and Holiday Inn Express Geneva — and the venue. Shuttle service runs from early afternoon through late evening so you can get to the ceremony and back afterward.

Question

Is there parking at the venue if I want to drive?

Answer

Yes, plenty of parking is available on-site. That said, we’ll also have shuttles running so everyone can relax, celebrate, and get home safely.