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Ahead of the formal invitations - if you know you're coming PLEASE book your travel and accommodations ASAP. September is a very popular time of year in the Finger Lakes! We have two hotel blocks with discounted rates in the travel section. <3 Josh & Shelby
Ahead of the formal invitations - if you know you're coming PLEASE book your travel and accommodations ASAP. September is a very popular time of year in the Finger Lakes! We have two hotel blocks with discounted rates in the travel section. <3 Josh & Shelby

Josh & Shelby

Schedule

The Wedding Website of Shelby Sullivan and Joshua Wilder
Below you’ll find the schedule of events — from welcome festivities to our wedding day and everything in between. We’ve included times, locations, and dress codes to help you plan your weekend. Please check back here for any updates as we get closer to the big day!

Friday, September 25, 2026

Welcome Event

7:30 pm - 9:30 pm

Dressy Casual

Join us for an evening of drinks and conversation as we toast to the festivities ahead. A cash bar will be available, and no dinner will be served—we recommend enjoying dinner beforehand and then joining us to raise a glass before the big day!

Saturday, September 26, 2026

Shuttle

2:45 pm - 11:30 pm

Please let us know in your RSVP if you plan to ride the shuttle so we can get an accurate headcount. The full shuttle schedule — including pick-up and return times — can be found on the Travel page.

Ceremony

3:15 pm - 4:00 pm

BLACK TIE OPTIONAL - Please refer to the FAQs section if you need any fashion advice!

Please plan to arrive by 3:15 PM to find your seat and get settled. If you’re taking the shuttle, you’re all set — it’s scheduled to get you here on time.

Reception

4:00 pm - 10:00 pm

BLACK TIE OPTIONAL

Bring your dancing shoes to get WILDER on the dance floor!

After Party

Sat, Sep 26, 2026, 10:00 pm - Sun, Sep 27, 2026, 1:00 am

When the music winds down, the night doesn’t have to! Join us by the fire pit near the reception tent for a cozy, casual after party. No RSVP needed — just swing by, grab a drink, and stay as long as you’d like. Shuttles back to the hotels will make a few late-night runs — check the Shuttle section for exact times so you can plan your exit.