Hello friends! Welcome to Raleigh :)
There are a LOT of options around town for whatever style accommodations you're looking for. Since the wedding will be held in Sanford, we recommend staying in the Apex/Cary area as a good midway between downtown and the venue. We'd also recommend booking either a hotel or an AirBnB.
For special hotel rates, you can use this link:
https://zola.hotelplanner.com/EventPage7488463
We'll also provide a few possibilities below in the general area we recommend.
Hotel
Holiday Inn Express Apex-Raleigh, an IHG Hotel
1006 Marco Drive Apex, NC 27502
A standard hotel, with fairly good ratings.
Hotel
Sonesta ES Suites Raleigh Cary
2900 Regency Parkway Cary, NC 27518
Another fairly well-rated standard hotel option.
Hotel
B & B's Country Garden Inn
1041 Kelly Road Apex, NC 27523
This is a cute little country bnb and could be a good option for couples.