FAQs

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How and when should I RSVP?

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We request that you RSVP online using this website. We will provide a final date to RSVP by when we send out our formal invitations, but we kindly ask that if you are unable to attend, please RSVP at your earliest convenience.

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Which airport should I fly to?

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You have a couple different options! Sonoma County Airport (STS) - 25 minute drive to The Stavrand San Francisco International Airport (SFO) - 1.5 - 2 hour drive to The Stavrand

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What is the dress code?

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We would love to see our family and friends get dressed up for our big day! Please see attire inspiration using this link: https://tinyurl.com/cjjweddingattire Friday's Welcome Party: We invite guests to dress in Semi-Formal or Dressy Casual attire. Ladies may wear dressy separates, short, midi or floor length dresses. Gentlemen may wear dress shirts and nice pants or sport coats. Suits and ties are optional. Saturday's Ceremony & Reception: We invite guests to dress in Garden Party Formal attire - think of it as a blend of elegance and comfort, colors are encouraged! Ladies may wear floor length or midi formal dresses or separates. Gentlemen may wear suits with ties. Tuxedos are optional. Sunday's Farewell Breakfast (Optional): Comfy casual!

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May I bring a plus one?

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Due to limited space at The Stavrand, we are only able to accommodate guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you have received a plus one, they will appear under your name when you RSVP. Thank you for your understanding!

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May I bring my children?

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We love your children, but this will be an adults-only event. Thank you in advance for your understanding!

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Will the wedding take place indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony, cocktail hour and reception dinner will take place outside al fresco style. We will then move inside for dancing after dinner. For those who need assistance, there will be golf cart shuttles available.