FAQ

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How should I RSVP?

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To RSVP - simply click on the RSVP tab and enter your name!

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Are kids welcome?

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Of course they are! Bring on the tiny friends!

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Is there a shuttle from the hotel? If I drive, is there parking?

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There will be a shuttle available from the hotel --> venue and back. (See shuttle details in the “schedule” tab!) Be sure to be in the hotel lobby by 3:00PM for the shuttle! & Yes! Plenty of parking is available on-site at the wedding venue if you drive yourself.

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What's a baraat?

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A Baraat is a parade in which the groom enters the wedding place. The groom comes with a Dholi (drummer), riding in on a sweet ride, along with his entire entourage. So if you're from the groom's side OR bride's side, be sure to come on time to be a part of the dancing as Wayne enters the wedding venue. This is met by Shevani's family and bridal guests greeting him into the wedding venue.

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What should I wear?

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Our wedding (and our guests!) represent lots of cultures and backgrounds - as such, don't hesitate to wear whatever you feel best represents YOU! In general, most of our guests will be dressed in formal cultural or cocktail attire. Think - saris, lenghas, kurtas (Indian) and gowns, suits, collared shirts (American).

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What are my options for Indian clothes?

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Great question!! Here are a few clarifying details to help with your search: For women: *Saree (or Sari) = long embellished fabric that you wrap around like a burrito, with a half shirt aka "blouse" underneath *Salwar or Suit = long gown, with pants underneath, and a scarf over the shoulder *Lehenga = 2 piece - a half shirt aka "blouse" and a long embellished skirt, with a scarf over the shoulder For men: *Kurta-Pajama = a loose long sleeve shirt almost reaching the knees, and a lightweight drawstring trouser underneath Websites to check out: riyacollective.com Lashkaraa.com Lukhstudio.com Amazon.com Facebook/Ebay/Craigslist & feel free to text Shevani or Wayne for more details or outfits to borrow! ☺

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What should I expect at the Hindu Ceremony?

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The Hindu Wedding ceremony starts with the Welcoming of the Groom (Baraat, see above). The wedding ceremony is performed beneath a decorated wedding altar “Mandap” which is represented by four pillars denoting our Parents. The Ceremony is performed by a Hindu priest in English and Sanskrit, the world’s most ancient surviving language. The ceremony consists of: Kanyadan - Offering of the bride to the groom Hast Melap - Acceptance of the bride from the Groom Mangal Pheras - The couple walks around the sacred fire several times, symbolizing the walk of life. The rounds signify their journey together to attain Dharma (duty), Artha (wealth and prosperity), Karma (fulfillment of worldly desires), and Moksha (spirituality and salvation). Saptapadi - the Vows

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I've never been to an Indian wedding. What should I expect?

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At our fusion wedding, you can expect: Lot's of food, Lots of dancing, Lots of FUN, colorful outfits and friendly people!! Indians love being surrounded by friends/family and making people fit in and comfortable. So bring an empty stomach, your dancing shoes, and you're in for a great experience!

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How can I give the newlyweds a gift?

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Although your presence is the only present we desire, you are welcome to contribute to Our Dream Fund on the Registry page. Please no boxed gifts.

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Where can I follow the wedding highlights?

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Follow our wedding journey on Instagram! @shevanimurrayswayne and #shevanimurrayswayne