FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by Sunday, July 19, 2026. This will help us finalize all the details for our big day and ensure we can accommodate everyone comfortably. We can’t wait to celebrate with you!

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Can I bring a date?

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We’d love to keep our guest list as intimate as possible, so please reach out to us if you’d like to bring a plus-one. We’ll be happy to let you know if it’s possible!

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Are kids welcome?

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We love your little ones, but we hope you’ll take the night to relax, celebrate, and enjoy some adult fun! If bringing them works best for your family, kids are absolutely welcome! There will be a game room just for them with attendants keeping an eye on things so parents can party worry-free.

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Is there a dress code?

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Yes, the dress code is Black Tie Optional. We kindly ask that guests dress in formal attire. For men, this typically means a tuxedo or a dark suit, and for women, a formal evening gown or an elegant cocktail dress. We look forward to celebrating with you in style!

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Yes! We have a block of rooms reserved at the Hilton Garden Inn Rockaway for our guests. Use the booking link provided in the Travel section of our website, or feel free to call the hotel directly at (973) 328-0600 to reserve your room. Be sure to mention our group code: CBWB to receive the special rate. We hope this makes your stay easy and enjoyable!

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What time should I arrive?

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Our ceremony begins promptly at 6:00 PM. If you’re taking the provided transportation, pickup times will be shared closer to the wedding to ensure everyone arrives right on schedule. If you’re driving, we recommend arriving around 5:30 PM to park, get settled, and enjoy the lake views before the celebration begins.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes, there is valet parking available for both the ceremony and reception. We’ve got you covered, so you can relax and enjoy the celebration!

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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Yes, there will be a bus providing transportation to and from the hotels to the venue. To ensure we have enough space for everyone, please RSVP on the travel page with your details. We appreciate your cooperation and look forward to celebrating with you!

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Can I take photos during the ceremony?

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We kindly ask that you refrain from taking photos during the ceremony so that our photographers can capture the moments. Feel free to take photos during the reception!

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Can I share photos on social media?

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We kindly ask that guests refrain from posting any photos of our flower girl on social media. Otherwise, we would love for you to share your favorite moments after the ceremony. If you wish to post, please use our wedding hashtag #BecomingBrennan so we can enjoy your memories along with you.

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Will the ceremony and reception be indoors or outdoors?

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Weather permitting, our ceremony will take place outdoors overlooking the lake, followed by an indoor reception in the ballroom. In the event of inclement weather, the ceremony will be moved indoors to ensure all guests remain comfortable while still enjoying the beautiful setting.

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What kind of food and drinks will be served?

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Guests will enjoy a full premium open bar, an extended cocktail hour with multiple chef-attended stations, and a formal sit-down dinner featuring a variety of entrée selections. We encourage everyone to arrive with an appetite and look forward to sharing a wonderful meal together.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes, please let us know about any food allergies or dietary restrictions when you RSVP, and we’ll be happy to accommodate your needs. Your comfort and safety are important to us!

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Is there an after-party?

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Yes. Following the reception, guests staying at the Hilton Garden Inn Rockaway are invited to continue the celebration at the hotel. Additional details will be shared closer to the wedding date.

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Are you registered anywhere?

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Your presence is the greatest gift we could ask for. However, for those who would like to honor us with a gift, our registry details can be found in the Registry section of our website.