FAQs

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Our wedding is a deeply personal and intimate celebration, and creating that close-knit atmosphere means we need to keep the guest list limited. Because of this, only guests who have a “plus one” explicitly mentioned on their invitation are welcome to bring a guest. We truly appreciate your understanding, it helps us make the day feel special and manageable for everyone.

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Can I bring kids?

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We adore the little ones, they bring so much joy! However, to keep the day intimate and special, only children in our immediate family will be joining us. Thank you for understanding and helping us create this unique celebration.

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Will there be a meal served?

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Yes! A full, delicious meal will be served during the reception.

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What kind of food will be on the menu?

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We’re offering a hybrid menu - guests can choose between a South African-themed or Nigerian-themed meal. Both are soulful, flavourful, and meaningful to us.

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How do I choose my meal?

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When you RSVP, you’ll be asked to select either a South African or Nigerian menu option. This helps us plan ahead and serve you properly - thank you!

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Will there be drinks?

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We’ll be offering a selection of drinks for everyone to enjoy throughout the celebration. If you’d like something beyond what’s provided, additional beverages will be available for your purchase.

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Can you accommodate dietary restrictions?

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Absolutely. Please let us know of any dietary needs when you RSVP so we can plan accordingly.

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Can I post photos from the wedding?

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Yes! Capture the joy and share it with love - just remember to tag us and use our hashtag #TheMatthews25.

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Timing & Arrival

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Please plan to arrive at least 30 minutes before the ceremony starts (around 13h30) so we can begin promptly and everyone can be seated comfortably.

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What if I have more questions?

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If you need clarity on anything, feel free to reach out to 060 283 7740 with any questions you might have :) !

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How do I RSVP?

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Please ensure you RSVP using the link that will be sent to you via WhatsApp. This is mandatory for attendance. When submitting your RSVP, you must: Indicate any dietary requirements (if applicable) Select your preferred meal (Nigerian-themed or South African-themed) under the "Message for the Couple" section of the RSVP form. 🔴 RSVPs are due by midnight on 15 August 2025. Late RSVPs will not be accepted — no exceptions. We are working with strict venue and catering deadlines, and final numbers must be confirmed well in advance. If your RSVP is not received by the deadline, we regret that we will be unable to accommodate you. Thank you for your understanding and cooperation. We look forward to celebrating with you!

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Please RSVP only once you are 100% sure that you will be attending :)

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We truly can’t wait to celebrate with the people who mean the most to us. That said, planning a wedding involves lots of moving parts (and fixed costs), so we kindly ask that you RSVP only when you are 100% sure you’ll be joining us. Your certainty helps us plan thoughtfully and avoid unforeseen losses. We really appreciate your understanding and cooperation :)