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Update: In light of COVID-19, we wanted to let you know our wedding is going forward as planned. As always, your health and safety are our top priority, and we completely understand if you’re no longer able to attend. Please just let us know as soon as possible.
Update: In light of COVID-19, we wanted to let you know our wedding is going forward as planned. As always, your health and safety are our top priority, and we completely understand if you’re no longer able to attend. Please just let us know as soon as possible.
August 21, 2021
Andover, MN
#BecomingTheBellsAugust21

Victoria & James

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James Bell

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Victoria Cartland

#BecomingTheBellsAugust21

Andover

MN

August 21

2021

The Proposal

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From Victoria: I knew the proposal was near because we had previously talked about being engaged before buying a home. With our apartment lease being up in February 2021, we started to look at houses in September and prepared to start putting offers in in October/November. However, I knew it was coming *really* soon because he started acting a little suspicious (phone calls with my mom, was gone for 3 hours one day, went and got his first hair cut in 10 months) in the weeks leading up. I was so convinced it was happening that I prepared for it to happen two weeks before it did! When that weekend came and went without a ring, I decided not to get my hopes up again and just let things happen (something I am not great at). A few weeks before, he asked me to make a reservation for the Minnesota Landscape Arboretum to see the fall colors. We went and took tons of pictures, just like we did last year, and just generally had a ton of fun. Typically we stay for 2-2.5 hours, and that’s what I had planned for in my shoe choice and in what I ate before we went. When he suggested we go for a 3-mile walk after we’d already done 4.5 miles in 2 hours, I was annoyed (hangry and my feet were tired). However, I reluctantly agreed because he kept saying, “Oh, I really want to go to the Chinese Garden. I heard there are great colors there.” As we approached the garden, he said, “I want to take a couple of pictures of you looking out over the water.” So I was facing that way, and when he had me turn around, he was holding the box and asked me to marry him. I didn’t realize that the people in the gazebo across the pond were my family there to watch and celebrate with us!

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