FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP no later than February 24, 2026.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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The ceremony at St. James Cathedral starts at 2:30 PM. Please arrive 15-30 minutes before the ceremony starts, around 2 PM-2:15 PM to make sure you are giving yourselves time to arrive and get into the cathedral to walk around and find where you want to sit.
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Is there a dress code?
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Semi-Formal to Formal: Tuxes and gowns are welcome, and so are suits and cocktail dresses. Attire is left to your discretion, and guests are warmly invited to wear the colors that make them feel their best. We kindly ask that ladies refrain from wearing white or ivory, in honor of the bride. Gentlemen are welcome to wear a white button-down shirt if they wish with their suits or tuxes.
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Can I bring a date?
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Your invitation will indicate whether or not you have a plus-one. As much as we would love to have everyone there, because of our large families we have to limit the number of guests. We appreciate your understanding and look forward to celebrating with you.
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Are kids welcome?
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Yes, kids are welcome. Kids names will be listed in the individual RSVP's for invited families where you can indicate which children will be able to attend with you.
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Do you have any hotel recommendations?
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Yes, all hotel recommendations will be in the Travel tab on this website.
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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There is free parking available in the O’Dea High School parking lot across from St. James Cathedral. Pay parking is available in the garage opposite the entrance to the O’Dea lot on Marion as well as meter parking. The reception venue offers valet parking. There is scarce street parking nearby and there is a parking garage that may have availability nearby (Republic Parking, 9 Wall Street).
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What will the weather be like?
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April weather in Seattle can be mild with light rain. We recommend bringing a light jacket just in case.
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Do I need a special form of ID in order to travel out of state? (For those flying to Washington)
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If flying from out of state you will need a REAL ID-compliant driver’s license, a U.S. passport, or another acceptable federal document to board domestic flights within the U.S.
