FAQs

Question

What are the travel arrangements to take us to/from the hotel to the wedding and other weekend events?

Answer

The great news is that no transportation is necessary as ALL events that weekend, including the welcome reception, ceremony, cocktail hour/reception, after-party and brunch the following day take place at the Tarrytown House Estates. Transportation is limited to walking to/from your hotel room to the on-site venues!

Question

I was hoping to bring my kid(s) but didn't see them mentioned on the invitation. Can I still bring them?

Answer

While we would love to have everyone be able to bring their kids, the simple truth is that we don't have space or headcount to accommodate this many people. As a result, we made the decision to only invite adults to the various weekend events, with the only exception being our immediate family (nieces and nephew).

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How do I get to Tarrytown?

Answer

Tarrytown is located about 30 miles north of New York City. Please see our travel page, which offers the best ways to get here.

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Do I need to RSVP to all of the events? I'm not sure if I can make the Thursday Welcome Reception or Saturday Brunch and it may be a last minute decision.

Answer

All of our events (except for the wedding ceremony and after-party) are based on headcount and do require RSVP responses. This is to let the venue know how much food to prepare for the events. If only some of your party can make certain events, not to worry. The RSVP page allows for individual responses.

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I RSVP'd "yes" to a certain event, but now realize I can't make it. Can I change my response?

Answer

Yes. You can change your response any time up until 2 weeks before October 11th. At that point, we have to submit the headcount list to Tarrytown House Estates. In the event that you RSVP'd "yes" to an event and then something unforeseen comes up during that 2-week period, please just let us know that you won't make it so we can reach out to the venue.