Yes! There is several hotels and air bnbs that will pop up on a google search closer to the venue; we decided to stay at the Heritage because of the 2 am bar, so we can hang out with everyone longer! The bar is open to the public, even if not staying at the hotel.
Formal, but keep in mind November in Connecticut can be cold and sometimes have snow!
In the invitations there is a small rsvp card, with a pre-stamped and addressed mini envelope. All you have to do is fill out the card, and pop it in the mail!
Contact Johanna at 203-232-2637. Thanks!